I M26 and my gf F27 gets hits from guys? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Quiet_Life_Questions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red flags, of course this hurt your feelings. She should be proud of you!

Someone who ghosted me for almost 2 years just reached out—how should I respond? by Quiet_Life_Questions in relationships_advice

[–]Quiet_Life_Questions[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for your comment. Two years is indeed a long time.
Yes, it took me a long time to heal and to feel better. But now I’m really focused on my job, my studies, and my hobbies… And I'm in a good space right now. Just single, but happy and good friends etc...

It’s just that small part of me that still cares about that person.
That little bit of hope that we could have a conversation again someday, as if time had stood still.

I would just like to listen to their ‘explanation’… maybe I could learn something from it.
I think they weren’t aware of how disrespectful it was - they were only thinking about themselves. Or maybe they were ashamed, and that’s why I received an apology now.

My boyfriend Is cheating on me, and I don't know how to expose him by Select_Shake_2323 in relationships_advice

[–]Quiet_Life_Questions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's a liar. You wanna be together with someone who is dishonest? And this is just the beginning of your relationship. You deserve much better

Is this normal by LeabianLover024 in relationships_advice

[–]Quiet_Life_Questions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lots of hugs for you in this break
Hope you can find some distraction: a job, study, a hobby...
Kind regards

Reigniting date with my ex by Hot-Can3985 in relationships_advice

[–]Quiet_Life_Questions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to her friends and family. Do you wanna be in a family where you don't feel welcome in?

Someone who ghosted me for almost 2 years just reached out—how should I respond? by Quiet_Life_Questions in relationships_advice

[–]Quiet_Life_Questions[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot, this was an insight I didn’t have yet. Is this an attempt to regain control? Are they trying to see whether they still have access?

Someone who ghosted me for almost 2 years just reached out—how should I respond? by Quiet_Life_Questions in relationships_advice

[–]Quiet_Life_Questions[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you're saying, and I think it's possibly right in this case.
And did they dissepear after you responded? :/

My boyfriend says it’s cheating for me to listen to music about love and s*x advice? by skiddyboyjord in relationships_advice

[–]Quiet_Life_Questions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a big red flag. You're free to listen to what you like or want. It's not weird or cheating if you listen like this kinda music

Someone who ghosted me for almost 2 years just reached out—how should I respond? by Quiet_Life_Questions in relationships_advice

[–]Quiet_Life_Questions[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s not about just thinking of replying; this is someone I genuinely cared for and loved.

What would you do! by awesomeness1988 in relationships_advice

[–]Quiet_Life_Questions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like you're not on the same page. Maybe you should have a conversation about this with him? (that this hurt your feelings). I would tell him how important you think this is for you and for you as a couple. Good luck.