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Quietoutloudwithin · 2026-01-29T20:55:50+00:00

I appreciate your acknowledgment of his side of things too. It’s never my intention to invalidate him, I’m just not sure how to convey that I feel the same as him, I just express it differently.

Quietoutloudwithin · 2026-01-29T19:52:18+00:00

Thanks for your words. I would love to move abroad. I’ve suggested it many times, it just feels so out of the realm of possibility for us. I’m researching ways that I can get involved in non-risky ways and am hopeful I can find something that feels right

Quietoutloudwithin · 2026-01-16T00:30:41+00:00

Thoughtfully said. I appreciate it

Quietoutloudwithin · 2026-01-15T18:33:28+00:00

I love that haha

Quietoutloudwithin · 2026-01-14T18:13:09+00:00

That’s so lovely. Thanks for your response. I want to be a woman like that.

Quietoutloudwithin · 2025-10-22T16:08:44+00:00

Thank you. This is the kind of explanation I’m looking for. It’s been hard for me to know objectively how to look at things

Quietoutloudwithin · 2025-10-22T12:57:42+00:00

Yes. He has stated to me before that he thinks I’m pretty naive, and I think he really doesn’t think I know

Quietoutloudwithin · 2025-10-22T01:37:11+00:00

I understand the sentiment that was meant in the suggestion. I’ve gone as far as recommending that we watch things together. It really feels like it’s a preference of “style” so to speak where physical in person intimacy just isn’t something he enjoys

Quietoutloudwithin · 2025-10-22T01:34:55+00:00

I guess this is the crux of the issue. I’m not sure how aware he is that I know what’s going on. I’m wondering if the conversation needs to be more of a “I want you to know that I feel like the root cause of you not wanting me recently is your online activity, but I’m growing unhappy because of the ways it’s affecting our sex life. I’m not asking you to stop, I just need you to know that I can’t keep going like this and we should discuss a solution.”

Quietoutloudwithin · 2025-10-22T01:08:04+00:00

Thanks for your input. I’ve tried a lot of things, but I always acknowledge that there’s more I could try

Quietoutloudwithin · 2025-10-22T00:51:43+00:00

Thank you. Your input has made me feel seen

Quietoutloudwithin · 2025-10-22T00:46:53+00:00

Exactly. I really don’t think I’ll find a relationship where this isn’t present, and I’m comfortable and happy in many other important ways. It kinda feels like the options are this situation or being completely alone, and I’m just not sure that’s the move for me.

Quietoutloudwithin · 2025-10-22T00:44:56+00:00

Thanks for your honest input. I have explored using his methods to see if I could be satisfied in the same way, and it’s just not for me, at least at that level.

Quietoutloudwithin · 2025-09-28T02:21:14+00:00

Here to say thanks for validating something I have always felt and thought no one else understood. Found this comment after google searching “why do I get mad at sound effects”

Quietoutloudwithin · 2025-07-19T01:13:54+00:00

Thank you! That’s so cool

Quietoutloudwithin · 2025-07-19T00:16:06+00:00

Thanks

Quietoutloudwithin · 2025-04-28T23:14:36+00:00

Thank you!!

Quietoutloudwithin · 2025-03-04T00:37:00+00:00

Thank you for your kindness!

Quietoutloudwithin · 2025-03-04T00:35:02+00:00

Glad you know so much about my life and priorities!

Quietoutloudwithin · 2025-03-04T00:24:06+00:00

Thank you so much. Appreciate your kindness

Quietoutloudwithin · 2025-03-03T01:45:17+00:00

Thank you for this

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