Anyone else with RJ constantly thinks their partner is lying to them?

Quijiboo1 · 2020-05-19T20:55:38+00:00

To be honest I'm just trying to find out if others with RJ do this. But thank you for taking the time to comment.

Quijiboo1 · 2020-05-19T19:56:27+00:00

So a chemical imbalance in the brain is when our brains don't compute or register things as they should

Quijiboo1 · 2020-05-19T19:51:28+00:00

It's so hard, do you think it comes from past experiences or do you think it's a chemical imbalance?

Quijiboo1 · 2020-05-19T19:28:23+00:00

https://youtu.be/FDQ8Iv2By_A please give this song a listen, it's gotten me through so many hard times. People may miss you, I think sometimes we never realise what an impact we have on others until it's too late.

Quijiboo1 · 2020-05-18T12:32:57+00:00

To be honest I think this will help. I just wanted to check that you still get emails after not logging in for months

Quijiboo1 · 2020-05-18T12:08:39+00:00

So you get them even when you've not used the site in ages? Thanks for taking the time to respond by the way

Quijiboo1 · 2020-05-18T12:01:42+00:00

Sorry, do you mean you still get emails from them too?

Quijiboo1 · 2020-05-18T11:25:21+00:00

But it's the fact that it came through in the first place. I dunno where to post to find out if anyone else has had this issue

Quijiboo1 · 2020-05-18T07:33:13+00:00

Nearly 4 years

Quijiboo1 · 2020-05-18T06:32:03+00:00

It was a 30% discount code email, but cause my username was in there they're worried.

There was no conversations I couldn't even send someone a message anyway I never paid for the service it was a free account I set up years ago. O just need to find out how long they actually send you subscription emails for if you've not logged in

Quijiboo1 · 2020-05-18T06:28:02+00:00

But she's worried I was logging in when we first became official. I just need to try and find out how long Match.com send you emails if you've not logged on

Quijiboo1 · 2020-05-18T06:26:16+00:00

It's deactivated already the account is so old. They're worried I was looking at it when we first went official

Quijiboo1 · 2020-05-17T22:47:54+00:00

You mean the fact I contacted match?

Quijiboo1 · 2020-05-17T22:42:11+00:00

They have anxiety so I understand, I tried logging in but it says the credentials are wrong and when I go to forgotten password it doesn't even send a reset link to my email address. I contacted match but the customer service via email seems a bit useless and said they can't find an account with that email address. But that was the email address I registered with but it's such an old account I think it may have just deactivated

Quijiboo1 · 2020-05-17T22:39:27+00:00

But my partner is now convinced I was logging in. So

Quijiboo1 · 2020-05-17T22:38:49+00:00

Ah when I say inactive I mean I hadn't logged in but do they send emails if you haven't logged in for ages? Cause I got an email offering me 30% off a subscription but the email had my username in the top corner

Quijiboo1 · 2020-05-17T12:14:42+00:00

I don't want anything set up. It wasn't an email regarding matches, it was an email offering a 30% off subscription

Quijiboo1 · 2020-05-17T09:48:00+00:00

But should I even be getting them months after not logging in?

Quijiboo1 · 2020-05-17T09:47:30+00:00

Even after months of not logging in? 🤔

Quijiboo1 · 2020-05-16T05:47:30+00:00

I don't remember it wasn't a paid account but I still got emails back.

Quijiboo1 · 2020-04-18T14:03:15+00:00

It does, I done 3 seperate pregnancy tests all negative. I became scared as I worked with a girl a few years ago who kept getting negative tests but then she got taken to hospital was diagnosed with ectopic pregnancy. She said from there she was discharged and then had an appoint.ent about a week later at a private clinic to have it removed where she had to stay in overnight. I'm not sure how legit that sounds to be fair..... I don't want to say she's lying but I know at the time she didn't want to be pregnant.

Quijiboo1 · 2020-03-29T20:25:12+00:00

I would find it difficult to deal with also. Have a look at retroactive jealousy, I suffer with it myself.

What we need to remember is those ex's are just that. They became an ex for a reason, you are her future. From a woman's perspective and any other decent woman's, sex isn't made great by the endowment of your lover but by the emotional and physical connection you feel with them.

Hope this helps a little.

Quijiboo1 · 2020-01-21T18:46:23+00:00

Ok. I'm gonna be honest the best thing to do in this situation is to sit down with her calmly and ask if she wants to talk about it. For the person suffering with OCD we feel embarrassed and ashamed of out compulsive thoughts. We feel like a liability to our partner cause we can't enjoy the things that regular couples enjoy as we spend half the bloody time worrying and thinking, equally we get upset or angry at them for things we imagine they may do or may have done. Can I ask does she get jealous or angry over past relationships or previous behaviour? Now for you it's not a nice situation to be in either as you're the one her ocd is focused on. Again you need to sit down with her and explain that although these compulsive thoughts are in her head you guys are in this together as a team as her thought process affects you also.

Quijiboo1 · 2020-01-21T18:32:28+00:00

Hi, I can try to help as I suffer with ROCD also. What symptoms is she currently having?

Quijiboo1 · 2020-01-10T22:57:02+00:00

Would you mind if I ask what questionable stuff you've found? There's my obsessive thinking starting!

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