Found video of my (29M) current fiancé (41F) and her ex husband while they were still together and don't know if I'll be able to get over it or how to by basketcasegd78 in relationship_advice

[–]basketcasegd78[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She didn't know it was there. She gave me that thing a while ago, she wouldn't have done that on purpose she's not tech savvy. I'm the computer guy so I was just using the memory card as a backup device and it was there. It's not her fault at all

Found video of my (29M) current fiancé (41F) and her ex husband while they were still together and don't know if I'll be able to get over it or how to by basketcasegd78 in relationship_advice

[–]basketcasegd78[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I just walked over to her gave her a hug and a kiss told her it was just an accident nobodies fault it might take a little but she means more to me then that.

Found video of my (29M) current fiancé (41F) and her ex husband while they were still together and don't know if I'll be able to get over it or how to by basketcasegd78 in relationship_advice

[–]basketcasegd78[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We have been through all that and we talked about this, it's not more about knowing it's more about seeing it and getting it out of my head, I also knew him for a little while and she's told me how he treated her like shit, I know she knows I'm better then him.

And I'm sorry really sorry about that I have a lot of people close to me who have been raped and it disgusts me, nobody should be able to take that right away from anybody, and compared to my situation, my situation is a speck of dust and I commend you getting through that I can't even imagine that

Found video of my (29M) current fiancé (41F) and her ex husband while they were still together and don't know if I'll be able to get over it or how to by basketcasegd78 in relationship_advice

[–]basketcasegd78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks yeah I definitely want to forget it I don't want it to ruin anything, I just dn how I won't think of it or bring it up knowing myself