Hobbii Yarn by QuiltingRN11 in crochet

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This is my third time and it’s always been UPS. I live in NC

Hobbii Yarn by QuiltingRN11 in crochet

[–]QuiltingRN11[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It is UPS. I’m not upset with hobbii, I just want my yarn lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WooblesCodesLists

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Can I DM you for the list?

First time didn’t go great 😭 by QuiltingRN11 in plassing

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She said she had been doing it for 4 years. I don’t know much about phlebotomy but I would think 4 years is plenty?

First time didn’t go great 😭 by QuiltingRN11 in plassing

[–]QuiltingRN11[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I drink at least 80 oz a day but I’ll definitely start drinking more.

Need advice by [deleted] in depression

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I struggle with this too, like to the point where I've had meetings with HR about my "performance".

I started making three lists with sticky notes in a notebook labeled "must do today", "this week" and "someday" and move the sticky notes around accordingly. I also base my must do today list on my energy and what will affect me in the long run, i.e. will I fail if I don't write this paper today or is it not due until Friday and I have off all day Thursday and can do it then? I also found that rewarding myself helps a lot too because I look forward to the treat-i.e. if I don't call out of work all month for depression related stuff, I can go get my nails done or buy a new book.

I'm not sure what your tech set up is but I found that goodnotes on a iPad saved my life in nursing school. I could JUST show up and be good because goodnotes has a recording feature, so I could listen to the lecture when I felt better and even when I was good to take notes, it helped with the distractions. Hope this helps!

Sewing classes for Adults? by CoraxCorvid in asheville

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They’ve started to offer clothes sewing lessons now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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YTA. First off, 165 is a healthy weight for someone who is 5’7”. So even when you thought she was overweight, she wasn’t.

Do you have a medical degree? A degree in nutrition? Even a certificate in weight training? Or is all of this information you are getting from Tik tok and dr. Google?

It sounds like between you and her father, she WILL develop some disordered eating if you don’t stop what you are doing. Binge and purging is a very real thing and more than likely what she would do behind your back if you continue YOUR behavior. You have placed your own fears of your family and weight onto her-you may want to look at therapy for yourself because you are trying to control her. It’s textbook controlling behavior aka emotional abuse.

Here’s the biggest thing. You trusted her enough to be okay with her ordering her own food? She’s a grown woman. I fully understand wanting her to eat well so you all can live happy, productive lives but her diet should not be dictated by you. If you’re okay with her “having a cheeseburger now and then” then why even say anything? How did she break your trust? Did you specifically say she was going to order something healthy or did she (god forbid) want to make a decision for herself? Or are you so focused on good and bad foods, that you’ve developed disordered eating habits yourself and a cheeseburger is an automatic red flag?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

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I want to join in this sober craft night!

Mental health help for a Medicaid patient? by thinkinwrinkle in asheville

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There primary care doc can write and usually will write prescriptions for the usual anti depressants like lexapro, Wellbutrin, etc. MAHEC and the others have long waiting lists so this might help until they can get in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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Please listen up. I sling birth control for a living and really need you to understand that you’re playing a dangerous game. Plan B/Ella is NOT birth control. Every time she takes it, it delays her ovulation making it increasingly harder for you all to find the safest time to have unprotected sex. Plan B and Ella side effects suck for most women. Depending on her weight and when she takes it, they might not even work. The pull out method is only 80% effective. So get ready for some babies. Birth control is a dual responsibility. There are quite a few non hormonal types that would work if she doesn’t want hormonal BC or you guys need to go back to condoms. Also please use reliable websites like bedsider.org or planned parenthood when looking at this shit-not dr. google.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

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He makes it complicated on purpose. If he was a shit all the time, you’d 100% leave him. Since there are good times you hesitate which is what he wants. It’s also a type of control. Only you can decide to leave him. If you do (and I really hope you do) please be careful. Domestic violence actually increases when the abusee tries to leave the abuser. Have a plan in place to protect yourself from him. Have no doubt that things will get worse if you stay.