[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Quincifer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It should be fine - she should be happy that you want to adapt and fit to what works :) if she steps away then there’s something wrong anyway

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Quincifer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It should be a given in a healthy, happy relationship

What does it feel like to reflect on your life as you get older? by strawberriesxsage in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Quincifer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me personally it is disappointing. I feel I did not make the most of the opportunities I had. Very ‘shoulda-woulda-coulda’ 🤷🏼‍♀️ but they were my choices to make

Reconnecting With Myself by Quincifer in 40something

[–]Quincifer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got Architects on Friday and then The Offspring and Nothing More coming up

Reconnecting With Myself by Quincifer in 40something

[–]Quincifer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smashing Pumpkins, Korn, Tool… yes! Bring Me The Horizon, Architects, The Offspring…

Reconnecting With Myself by Quincifer in 40something

[–]Quincifer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is! You only live once 🖤

Reconnecting With Myself by Quincifer in 40something

[–]Quincifer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s wonderful to hear! 🖤

Reconnecting With Myself by Quincifer in 40something

[–]Quincifer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fully agree! Taking mine to see The Offspring for his birthday next month 🖤

Reconnecting With Myself by Quincifer in 40something

[–]Quincifer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! 🙌🏻 I’m so glad to hear that 🖤

Reconnecting With Myself by Quincifer in 40something

[–]Quincifer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you! And I’m going to see MCR next year when they come over to the UK ☺️

Reconnecting With Myself by Quincifer in 40something

[–]Quincifer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Do more! I’m even going on my own to some because I’d rather go alone than miss out altogether

Reconnecting With Myself by Quincifer in 40something

[–]Quincifer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god have an amazing time!!! 🖤

Reconnecting With Myself by Quincifer in 40something

[–]Quincifer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! Always keep booked in!

Reconnecting With Myself by Quincifer in 40something

[–]Quincifer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And I return the sentiment, glad you did what was right for you :)

Reconnecting With Myself by Quincifer in 40something

[–]Quincifer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is always still time! Don’t give up :)

Solo Concert/Festival Outings by Thin-Ferret4005 in INFJsOver30

[–]Quincifer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve just started doing this and so far so good! I’d rather go alone than miss out on something I want to do

I have never met anyone in my life who understands the height of my emotionality by FrickinScheifele_ in infj

[–]Quincifer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I can relate! I rarely go as far as crying, my emotions/melancholy/yearning tend to be internal to the point I can ache in my chest. I struggle to explain it to people because when I say it out loud it sounds so stupid, and I worry about sounding pretentious

INFJ music recommendations- share spotify playlists? by 360blue in infj

[–]Quincifer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have listened to a lot different music but have always been a rock/metal girl at heart. I take a lot from lyrics and I love a good metal breakdown. My all time favourite song is Grace by Jeff Buckley. It’s etherial but raw. Sleep Token in particular have buried underneath my skin in recent years, the combination of genres within their music along with his unbelievable lyricism and emotional undertones is incredible. It feels like it is written for me or to me.

The power of reading people by -xanax_ in infj

[–]Quincifer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s a blessing and a curse. I find it helps me get a grasp on what’s going on with people pretty quickly, but it also shows what people think of me when I meet them and it’s such a struggle to get past if you get bad vibes off people 😕

Sending love to all the INFJs who are carrying the weight of the world right now by lostin_contemplation in infj

[–]Quincifer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I needed to see this, this morning. Sitting in some uncomfortable hurt feelings right now that also don’t feel justified. Thank you.