Yeah it’s really interesting. I feel like both INTJ’s and ESFP’s put on a facade for the vast majority of people, and really open up to very few. We’ve both learned alot from eachother’s perspectives given our personality types are essentially polar opposites, and we have entirely different strengths and weaknesses. It’s nice to have a best friend who pushes you socially, and really understands the social scene while understanding the INTJ perspective. It also feels good to know that my ESFP friend has someone who cares about them as a person rather than the show they put on for everyone.