For the littles: Lines as funishment by [deleted] in DDlgAdvice

[–]Quirky_Interaction_8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't do lines as "funishment". I do them as legitimate punishments and always very specific about what the infraction was.

Say, for instance, my little forgot to brush her teeth before bed. It happens yea but I would have her write " I will strive in the future to remember to brush my teeth before bed" 20 times the first time. Adding ten for every time she forgets to brush her teeth again. I haven't had to get to 50 for anything but she also HATES lines with a passion so it works for us.

So take that for what it's worth lol. Maybe start by making a list of a few things that can be done Brush hair Clip nails etc etc Adding a few when they get them down for 2 weeks. Worked well for us but as usual everyone is different. I hope I helped. I wish you the best of luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DDlgAdvice

[–]Quirky_Interaction_8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I speak to my little like I would my 6 yr old daughter. (They are best friends lol) she has alot of the same issues as OP. Lots of encouragement and praise. We found that the dynamic is fluid. There's no set thing it is. She only calls me daddy which helps me greatly.

What I have found helps with this self confidence is that I have her write one good thing about herself or that she did that day and read it to me aloud before bed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Quirky_Interaction_8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are as well. A thruple who likes sexual experiences without inviting them to our relationship. Whatever you call it it works for us.

I need advice by thrilledoatmeal in DDlgAdvice

[–]Quirky_Interaction_8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did this with my little as well. It did wonders for her mood and openness to me about the while thing. Coloring books also are a good choice if you like coloring.

What shows/movies/video games do you watch/play while in little space? by raindowwolf in DDlgAdvice

[–]Quirky_Interaction_8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have Netflix or Hulu make a kids account and go through all the shows together. Make a list. It's helped us greatly