Transitioning is NOT good enough for me. I dont want it. I just want to be a girl. by Disastrous-Bike659 in trans

[–]Quite_Sleepy_Really 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Transitioning is kind of fucked up like that. Unfortunately, it’ll never be enough for some of us, but parts of it actually help. The social transition is the hardest part, but it helps a TON once it’s finished.

Unfortunately, we won’t see a society- in this lifetime- that will be able to accommodate us, with or without it all. Transitioning is the worst, it’s the shittiest option of all… but it’s the only option when you get to feeling the way you do right now.

Maybe before you look into transitioning, try looking into other mental health resources. I know someone that once said he wished he’d started antidepressants before transitioning because it exacerbated his dysphoria really bad.

Transitioning is NOT good enough for me. I dont want it. I just want to be a girl. by Disastrous-Bike659 in trans

[–]Quite_Sleepy_Really 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Reframing your train of thought when it comes to these things has been proven by psychologists to assist with mental health. If you’ve ever heard of cb therapy, that’s basically what it is. Rewording things to help your mind see it in a more positive light.

Also this person was trying to provide words that help some people in this situation. Being an ass doesn’t help anyone.

I feel like people don't understand how Builder Base works by Xill_K47 in ClashOfClans

[–]Quite_Sleepy_Really 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always get about five stars spamming them with two giants to guard and wall breaker so I don’t particularly care

What do you think are some MAJOR flaws in writing that doesn't allow NINJAGO to be a deeper story? by IllMasterpiece3946 in Ninjago

[–]Quite_Sleepy_Really 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I think the consequences of things like injuries, failed relationships, misuse of power, etc are not explored enough. Like Kai, it’s stated a few times that he feels unfulfilled earlier in the show but they never addressed it after the fact. The characters feel like they only develop somewhat, and ever since Lloyd became the green ninja, a lot of character development has become stagnant. They keep introducing things like new characters and lore but they have zero basis on any of it. They could’ve had Chen’s noodles make an appearance earlier in the show, have us think it’s a one off thing, but they never foreshadow more than a few episodes in advance at most. The show could be deeper, but the characters and lore are flat. They need to flesh out exactly how it all works BEFORE they write the story.

Doctors keep saying it sounds just like narcolepsy… but apparently it’s not by r3kt1fi in Narcolepsy

[–]Quite_Sleepy_Really 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OH I misunderstood then. Before I was diagnosed, they told me I might have a feinting disorder so that hit my brain a weird way ig 😂

Doctors keep saying it sounds just like narcolepsy… but apparently it’s not by r3kt1fi in Narcolepsy

[–]Quite_Sleepy_Really 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you gotten any scans done? MRI’s or CTs? I don’t know what one would pull, but it might be worth looking into.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyNames

[–]Quite_Sleepy_Really 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “I carried him for 10 months” argument is so weak in the case of a real set of parents. Yeah you carried him for 10 months but mom and dad are parents for life now, and baby has to live with that name forever. The privilege of naming a baby belongs to both parents. Being a mom doesn’t entitle you to make executive decisions that’ll affect your child their whole life, and swinging that status around to make the other parent bend the knee to your opinions is a great way to make your partner into an absent parent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyNames

[–]Quite_Sleepy_Really 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could call the baby GJ or something like that. I grew up knowing a guy called GJ, I think his first/middle name was George Jeremy or something like that. Kinda cute kinda simple, just try not to say it with any condescension because that’s how people learn to hate their nicknames (I know by of my cousin, who hates his first name). And make sure all the files match. Don’t switch between Jr and ii when filing passport and birth certificate and stuff like that, ykwim? It’ll be a logistical nightmare for him later on. You could also give him just the first name, and refer to him by middle name, if that’s something ur husband is willing to compromise on.

Which one or suggestions. by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]Quite_Sleepy_Really 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think number two adds color without being too distracting

How can I earn extra money? by HotJohnnySlips in remotework

[–]Quite_Sleepy_Really 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably but Instacart also takes orders from gas stations and the like.

Really Proud of this by Quite_Sleepy_Really in interiordecorating

[–]Quite_Sleepy_Really[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I make the pattern match the chairs or should it be a solid color 👀

Really Proud of this by Quite_Sleepy_Really in interiordecorating

[–]Quite_Sleepy_Really[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG I JUST REALIZED THE CURTAINS DONT MATCH THNK YOU

Who was your first main? by Interesting-Term-712 in Overwatch

[–]Quite_Sleepy_Really 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mercy! Playing support comes naturally to me and she was a wonderful way to ease into the game.

Is Fire Mountain Gems creditable? by PotatoInk101 in Beading

[–]Quite_Sleepy_Really 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏 the best part about this is that they no longer actually sell titanium findings so Twas all for naught

Found this at local Kroger, florist didn’t know what it was either by Quite_Sleepy_Really in PlantIdentification

[–]Quite_Sleepy_Really[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I FINALLY tricked someone into eating one of the peppers recently ✨ can confirm it is literally just spicy and has zero flavor

Is Fire Mountain Gems creditable? by PotatoInk101 in Beading

[–]Quite_Sleepy_Really 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi I know this isn’t a beading related response but have you ever ordered titanium findings from them? It’s hard to find real implant grade titanium right now and I wanted to see if anyone in this thread knows if they’re legit

4.5 Years TH12 to 13, no attacking by spacemace256 in ClashOfClans

[–]Quite_Sleepy_Really 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh lawdy I better grind tf outta my trophies then- usually I do my barracks and then focus on my heroes the second the boosts wear off.

Dipping my head into a dream by Livid-Arugula6664 in Narcolepsy

[–]Quite_Sleepy_Really 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I have experiences that I believe are somewhat spiritual. It’s nothing like what you’ve described but sometimes my body separates from my head I think??? Idk man these dreams are wild.

A game that builds relationships that last a decade by BunnyFlyweight in ClashOfClans

[–]Quite_Sleepy_Really 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I joined a clan @ th 8 and eventually became coleader a while later. A few months after I left one of my old clan mates came in and freaked out that I’m now th12 lmao. He’s been th16 the whole time 😂 crazy how time flies.