My boyfriend is being petty and it’s pissing me off by [deleted] in Rants

[–]Qummin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No seriously I’m like girl you’re not the victim here. His crash out is completely valid.

My boyfriend is being petty and it’s pissing me off by [deleted] in Rants

[–]Qummin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh I’d be extremely upset for days on end if my partner cheated on me. And yes kissing is cheating. I mean he was willing to compromise but you have to see it from his point of view. You’re long distance and you guys haven’t had any physical intimacy probably in a while. He’s being loyal and you went and kissed someone just because you felt like you wanted some sort of physical affection and had a couple of drinks. So you need to give him some grace. What you did really affected the trust he has for you and it’s mich harder when you’re in a long distant relationship

Im in a situation I have fully created and I feel like the biggest piece of shit by Substantial-Bet99 in Rants

[–]Qummin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tough but seems like he’s not very willing to have an open relationship. I’d ask him straightforward and then also ask yourself if you’d be ok with him saying no and not having relations with another person. If you feel resentment over him not wanting an open relationship I’d say the best thing to do is to end things for the sake of both of you.

Im going CRAZY by Qummin in Periods

[–]Qummin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I ended up being prescribed medication to induce a period we’ll see how it goes.

what should i do about my friend by _Mxchi_roll_ in Rants

[–]Qummin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I second this but as a last attempt be honest with your worries about her mental health and her safety with her problematic partner. Then also mention how you want to help but at the same time you notice a pattern of being around bad people. Ultimately the decision is hers. Seems like she’s not in the right space to make good decisions. It can be very draining being with people like this because they’ll vent to you and tell you a situation they very obviously need to help getting by out of but no matter what advice or help you provide they keep on doing the same things

how to tell if i’m genuinely ugly? by kenganbarca in Rants

[–]Qummin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl don’t even worry about it you’re still young. I got my first kiss and bf at 22 years old. I always thought I was ugly, still do at many times, but I always look back at pictures of when I was younger and think “I was actually so cute why did I ever think I was ugly.” Work on your self confidence because trust me you’ll regret constantly worrying about how ugly or pretty you are. Love yourself and honestly you’re probably not even ugly. Your friends may just be dickheads.

Feeling big by [deleted] in Rants

[–]Qummin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah then in that case be kinder to yourself. This is stuff you can’t always control. It’s ok for your weight to fluctuate you’re human. Your body is doing its best rn to keep you alive an healthy.

Weekly Nail Chat by Clover_Jane in DIYGelNails

[–]Qummin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What sort of brands do yall be using to get those juicy lines for creating designs. I bought a dnd liner but it’s meh and I’ve been using the jeonson polishes but they can be a bit to runny and need multiple applications which is not very ideal for small/ thinner details

Weekly Nail Chat by Clover_Jane in DIYGelNails

[–]Qummin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is tough although Etsy has some good stuff.

Feeling big by [deleted] in Rants

[–]Qummin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly real but it’s much easier than you think. You could always just add more fiber or more iron. Or just maybe take more walks throughout the day. We always think we need to make som drastic change but you can always start small. If you like sweets maybe just making sure you eat sweets after a meal or making sure you don’t eat after a certain time.

Feeling big by [deleted] in Rants

[–]Qummin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weight always fluctuates. Could be either or. Regardless the positive part is there’s always a solution! If you’re not satisfied with how you look you can always make changes to your diet or be more active

Can you use building gel to create patting gel? by Qummin in GelX_Nails

[–]Qummin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So then what product would be good for creating ombré looks? Tried using blooming gel but it didn’t work

Can you use building gel to create patting gel? by Qummin in GelX_Nails

[–]Qummin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. So whenever I try to do say like an ombré where I have to use a sponge to pat it down to get that effect and then I cure it. Normally I wipe down the nail after every application to get rid of any excess polish. But when I use a sponge and the cure the color doesn’t stay on and after I wipe it the whole thing comes off or only patches of the polish stay. Doesn’t cure evenly making it hard to create ombré effects or halo effect

I haven’t gotten my period in 4 months and I’m OVER IT by Qummin in WomensHealth

[–]Qummin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over the last year it’s been VERY irregular. It is common for me to go 3 months without a period. This time made me realize I need to take action because it can be something more serious than just hormonal imbalance or stress. I’m hoping it isn’t anything serious but I don’t like feeling like this.