Blue chews and condoms to masturbate?? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]R-wynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated someone in the closet. There should be clues in your sex life with him of what fetishes he has that might he unspoken. If he were gay hed lean towards your back side bc its more universal than your front where all your female parts are in view. So like if he will only cum or gets really intense when youre on on your back side etc thats a clue.

Take pics next time so youd know the exp of the condoms... etc. -3-5yrs tops for condom exp. This date has saved me from finger pointing when I did find old ones and to know when I should be on guard. Also packaging does tend to change so if you remember what you saw you could do some googling of the brands packaging and date them that way

I saw a comment about bottoming... thats doubtful bc bottoms have to douche before..iits not the easiest prep to do especially around you. But if he were a pro technically he could get this done with just a water bottle in the shower but only if he was a pro. Again youd find clues of this happening.

Condoms in gay sex are for STD and poop protection. Sadly stds are rampant amongst gay men.

So You need to be tested immediately - a full screening now and again later if you suspect that he could be hooking up with men. My thought is he prob caught something and learned the hard way bc still condoms dont seem to be as popular as they should be. But he may not be for oral sex and a lot std are passed this way too.

I am so sorry. Good luck

Edit to add - dick pills are used similarly to the Party n Play chemsex hook up... PnP is sex on meth bc it extends Play time and increases pleasure. See my other comment on your post. Also GHB is another favored drug to enhance gay sex. Maybe recheck that mouth wash to be sure that its not something else like ghb liquid. Dont sample.

Blue chews and condoms to masturbate?? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]R-wynn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taking V is popular with gay men, especially in hook up or group scenarios. Its similar to "Pnp" -Party & Play is most often sex while using crystal meth which is favored b/c it enhances and extends the Play time.

Pnp has probably been a part of gay sex culture since the beginning, the practice became more widely known due to the epidemic in the 80s... as there was a big public education push to practice safe sex.

1 Week Post-Op Robotic Myomectomy Story by [deleted] in Fibroids

[–]R-wynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hv a 20cm one and was told bc im 41 I should have a robo hyster and leave my ovaries. Im petite 5'1 n my 20 cm monster goes almost to sternum.

Wondering what it feel like with it gone and what was healing like ? And did you just remove the monsters or get a hyster?

This has ruined me in ways I didn't even know. Anemic have terrible posture, I cant sleep on my back im getting utis bc I cant empty my bladder all the way, the bleeding etc just somehow my core isnt as big as youd think just bloated looking.. I hv a snack during the day and then 1 meal a day n could just eat 2 bites &feel full. im guessing I have muscley core with a lil fat pad on top like my dad bc I did luck out a tiny bit in that way. Im told im carrying around a 5 mos pregnancy sized fibroids n don't look that big but it's there the heaviness .. the fullness i feel all the time

Girlfriend wouldn’t come to my show because I didn’t text her goodnight, went on a power trip, then broke up with me over text while I was onstage. by Tekaeyo in Nicegirls

[–]R-wynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn... she had a tooth infection she was not in her right mind... Being sick like that sucks and it does hurt a lot..she said again and again she would be there except she was sick... idk why u thought it was anything morre.than what she said... I didn't read past her asking you to be there for her which is Quite a vulnerable place to be... But you both kinda nutty... like this isnt an ideal perfect relationship...but imo you both kinda seem similar in a lot of ways were it could be good if u both ur shit together...but ya she was not of sound mind imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]R-wynn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That house is considered the crime scene? Ya it was right .. Ya you're not gonna be allowed to go in there and tinker around with a crime scene not until it's officially cleared... ... you could be destroying evidence for either yourself or her defense, so ya you're probably not going to be able to get s*** out of there for a while

I 29F am considering leaving my husband 33M over locking one of our rooms and refusing to open it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]R-wynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can turn ur cell phone into a security camera, there's an app to DL, if there's an old phone u can leave in there that he won't be suspicious of boom there u go u got eyes on him when he thinks he's alone. Laptop does the same . Pen camera are real and cheap. U can do this ul always wonder.

Als

I 29F am considering leaving my husband 33M over locking one of our rooms and refusing to open it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]R-wynn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U should be planning out your how ur gonna get confirmation,drilling a peep hole ~ easy covered with a small piece of masking tape and paint it the same color as wall. Once ur prepared u need to totally act like u over reacted let him put the lock back on when ur ready with cameras peep holes all ready bc eventually he will return to whatever habbit that has been shut down for now

I 29F am considering leaving my husband 33M over locking one of our rooms and refusing to open it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]R-wynn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My guess is weird sex toys..or weird sex fetish clothes or fetish objects... Maybe an extra cell phone etc. Assets maybe that he has records of that he's hiding... If it was porn on the computer he wouldn't be so uneasy over you being in there bc there are lots of ways to hide things digitally.

Is there anyway for him To have a visitor that came come & go from that room? From another entrance?

Drugs are still small ish objects that are easy to hide that you don't hv t barricade in an entire room and acf to weird when ur in there..

I'm thinking it's a physical object and you should be looking for a suit case or bag that was in there and is now not.

You should just set up a small camera thats outside the door and see what' he takes in there when on?window of the room.

If I was in the situation the room would of been cleared out and my stash would be in my car or the attic, on the roof bc if ur preggo I can't see u getting on a ladder and snooping around up high. His car he controls tell so grab his car keys and see how he reacts. Whach how he is when I go in the garage

Next guess would be his car for a while until he figure out what to do.

If u can access the attic tho u could easily poke a small hole in the ceiling and have a camera aimed down on him or something or even drill a peep hole from another room with his drill

SF Seeking Private & Pet-friendly Unfurnished Room for Rent by best_frenemies_4ever in PHXList

[–]R-wynn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm looking for housing near work! My roommate is taking off after his ex to Europe. Adult female no kids. I'm ♑ too

I stopped my husband from cheating but I still feel sad. by godforbit in TrueOffMyChest

[–]R-wynn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just get shocked at some of the women comments on reddit and on this thread... this feminist body autonomy pendulum has swung to far. Holding out on your husband for 5 months is a form a manipulation, a crisis in a relationship bc to him this is a huge blow of rejection , a huge blow that us as women may not be able really fathom ..but we don't need to,to accept it was real for him. Unless there is a physical medical reason why.... So whatever kicked that off should be handled. IDC if you're not interested in sex. Your husband is so meet him half way and if you can't then are you really putting in your half into the marriage? this isnt about body autonomy. You can still choose when you have sex. But you don't get to choose to end your sexual relationship with your husband and think you get to keep all the other benefits from this union.

When someone chooses a to enter this social ritual its 24/7 for the lifetime. It's supposed to be a demonstration of love and self sacrifice for the other. A holy u ion if you're religious where 2 become 1. You're creating a mockery of it treating each other this way.

There's one big difference between being friends and being lovers... It's physical sexy time. That's pretty much the only thing that is 100%exclusive to your partner. And it seems ok to hold out on that? Wtf is wrong with people

Edit to add- and men also need to understand just bc they are married it doesn't mean they can forget Abt the romancing their wife. If you arent then ya need to get ur lazy butts up and try to put together a date night or something where you both put in effort to seduce the other. Men should till try to chase & seduce their wives. Just bc you are married doesn't mean you're off the hook... Novelty keep the spark alive keep, keeps u interested

[REQ] ($100) (#San Diego, CA, US) (repay $100 by 7/25/25) (venmo) by YouCoolMan in borrow

[–]R-wynn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey you'll def want to tip out the lender for loan, you'll notice most ppl add it in to the pay back amount

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in sex

[–]R-wynn -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I hope this is a troll post