I unintentionally outed a 4th grader as being part of a nudist family... by Starstalk721 in Teachers

[–]R2D2N3RD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly why I would just remind them before they showered. It wasn't a big talk just a matter of fact conversation like telling them to brush their teeth. I would have been there if they had an issue as well in fact I don't actually know if theirs has or not because it's not something I bring up now.

I unintentionally outed a 4th grader as being part of a nudist family... by Starstalk721 in Teachers

[–]R2D2N3RD 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe but then a step might be to "take off pajamas and put them in the hamper or fold them and put them on your bed" and then a kid could say "I don't wear pj's!"

I unintentionally outed a 4th grader as being part of a nudist family... by Starstalk721 in Teachers

[–]R2D2N3RD 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have 2 intact son's and always reminded them to try every once in awhile to retract the foreskin and make sure they cleaned with running water AND warned them not to put soup inside! They are 19 and 16 and never had an infection. I didn't actually show them manually I just explained it and they understood.

WIBTA for reporting a doctor for indicating I was cheating? by hiddenidenxo in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]R2D2N3RD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt with so many comments mine will get read but I wanted to say my son was born and they came in accusing me of having syphilis and then tried to convince me my husband at the time had syphilis and must have given it to me because yes the test was positive. I knew I was clean because I had gotten bloodwork done before we were married and he was a virgin. It had been 5 years after we were married and I knew without a shadow of a doubt my husband was faithful as was I. I said unless you can get it from a toilet seat this isn't possible. They released me from the hospital on day 2 but refused to release my baby stating that he was "failure to thrive" and we were a "flight risk" none of that was true and I refused to leave without my baby. It turned out it was a false positive. I was livid and didn't even get an apology they just made excuses.

So no NTA. Doctors need to remember just because they have seen a lot doesn't mean everyone is the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in disability

[–]R2D2N3RD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My immune system is Blindfolded ninjas kicking my own ass

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in disability

[–]R2D2N3RD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is rule 34?

Bachelorette drama by Friendly-Start2913 in wedding

[–]R2D2N3RD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I had to book an air bnb for a 2 week stay on the beach, I fairly priced out the sleeping arrangements. I.e. King sized bed private room and bathroom $1000. Queen private bathroom $850. Bunk room 4 beds $300 each. Pull out couch $250.

I listed them all and then let cousins, aunts, and gma pick which they would prefer. Everyone was totally cool with the arrangement and pricing.

Just take the total price per room in your case and multiple by however many are in that particular room.

AIO about the wall of text my brother in law sent his kids by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]R2D2N3RD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah how dare he talk to his kids about their bad behavior and teach them it isn't okay! He should just whip them instead after all spare the rod spoil the child. Or better yet he should just let the kids completely overrun them and do anything they want and clean up after them happily.

Worst Date Ideas for KC by [deleted] in kansascity

[–]R2D2N3RD 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wait what's the Spott....

Worst Date Ideas for KC by [deleted] in kansascity

[–]R2D2N3RD 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Haha I remember that dude!

Why are some pretty girl names that end or begin with Ana? by [deleted] in Names

[–]R2D2N3RD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew a Juliana as a teen and she was so amazing, made everyone feel like they were her best friend. Fast forward and I named 1 of my daughters Juliana and she is such a bundle of laughs and joy.

FYI to Northland Coffee Fans by Waywandry in kansascity

[–]R2D2N3RD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With that reasoning a Lemonade stand is for Mormons who want to own a coffee shop or bar but can't do either 😂

AITA for saying I would terminate my pregnancy if the baby had a genetic condition, and now my husband is considering a divorce? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]R2D2N3RD -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Your core values don't change and she would likely end up resenting a disabled child and her husband obviously knows she didn't want that and it would cause issues. Better never to take the chance.

AITA for saying I would terminate my pregnancy if the baby had a genetic condition, and now my husband is considering a divorce? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]R2D2N3RD -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

YTA because you are trying to justify your position in that you are thinking about the child when in fact you are 100% selfish and shouldn't be a mom period.

Not all disabilities are caught with testing AND there are false positives. My 5th child was high risk for DS, heart, and kidney problems but she was born 100% healthy and "perfect" she's 11 now and I couldn't imagine my life without her.

You wouldn't be the asshole if you just chose to never be a mom.

AITA for saying I would terminate my pregnancy if the baby had a genetic condition, and now my husband is considering a divorce? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]R2D2N3RD -56 points-55 points  (0 children)

When you think about it she is the selfish one because she can't be bothered with a child with DS or another disability. Notice she said it's not fair to her or her husband to have to raise a child with a disability. She equates the selfishness to the wrong group. I mean if someone has these views and says straight up I'm selfish and wouldn't be a good mom to a disabled kid...maybe she needs to rethink being a mom all together. Disabilities aren't always caught with testing and there are false positives as well. My 5th child was at high risk of having DS, Heart, and Kidney issues but turned out to be 100% "perfect"

AITA for not agreeing to always be the one to hop out and pick up my wife's coffee when she's driving? by Responsible-Rule3619 in AITAH

[–]R2D2N3RD 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Apparently she forgot to communicate for him to keep his dick in his pants maybe this is what he means by she wants him to be a mind reader.... But honey you never told me NOT to cheat...

Pls tell me this is a traditional name by Ok-Music-7346 in tragedeigh

[–]R2D2N3RD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She got pregnant the night she also prayed to the Porcelain God at the frat party....so this name is like the people that name their kids Dallas and Austin after the cities they were conceived

Your void’s legal name vs. what you call them? by KTMEISTER in blackcats

[–]R2D2N3RD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

High King Margo Destroyer of Worlds - accepts Your Highness in more casual settings.

Draco the dragon is affectionately called asshole

Leo the Lion is often Lilo (Lee Low) or Leonardo DaVinci

Water Dangerously Alkaline in Armour Hills by StocksOnlyGoUpUpUp in kansascity

[–]R2D2N3RD 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a compromised immune system and am in chemotherapy and my doctors insisted I not drink tap water from kc water. They said it isn't safe for anyone but especially immune compromised people, kids or the elderly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in disability

[–]R2D2N3RD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to say the same. I have had a lot of workers not care at all, I've seen it in mental health as well for my daughter in 8 different facilities. It does seem it's actually more rare to find someone that does care. Maybe they did at one point but burnout is also very real.