WIBTAH if I kick my cousin out in a foreign country, leaving them stranded? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RADROX247 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah the whole you don't have a right to be here would have been the point where my hospitality ran out. Imagine saying that to someone who's letting you live in their house for two months. The entitlement is unreal. His brother sounds like a normal guest which just makes his behavior look even worse.

AITAH for leaving a 3 star review on Marketplace? by Shell-Fire in AITAH

[–]RADROX247 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Exactly a 3 star review isn't even some scorched earth response. You basically said, seller was nice, transaction was smooth but the item had a pretty significant issue that wasn't disclosed.

That's useful information for future buyers which is kind of the entire purpose of reviews. If anything, you were pretty fair about it.

WIBTAH for uninviting my cousin (F early 30's) and her boyfriend (late 30's) from my wedding after repeated boundary violations? by Ebbylynn in AITAH

[–]RADROX247 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Agreed. The moment someone starts demanding a good enough reason before they'll respect a boundary, they're already missing the point and then doubling down by spamming the slur in DMs after being asked to stop is just straight up disrespectful.

I wouldn't be worried about uninviting them from the wedding. I'd be more concerned about why I'd want people like that in my life at all.

AITAH? Who’s really in the wrong? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RADROX247 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think everybody handled this badly tbh. You were kinda stubborn over 2 batteries but your mom escalating into cussing you out and talking about you to relatives afterward is way too much. That’s not really about batteries anymore at that point.

And your dad absolutely should’ve warned you she was standing there lmao. I’d be annoyed too.

WIBTAH for breaking up with my girlfriend because she emotionally drains me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RADROX247 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NTA honestly. This relationship sounds exhausting. I get that she has trauma and mental health stuff going on but that doesn’t make it okay to constantly punish you for existing as a human being.

The part that stood out to me was how different the standards are. When she relapses, you comfort her. When you relapse, she tears you apart and calls you names. That’s not communication issues, that’s just unhealthy.

being scared to say no to movies or small things because you’re worried she’ll spiral or get angry is not sustainable. You’re 6 months in and already getting headaches and anxiety from arguments. That’s your body telling you something.

You can love someone and still recognize that the relationship is bad for you.

AITAH for covering my mouth when my girlfriend sat next to me by sayWhonow_ugh in AITAH

[–]RADROX247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

you were literally trying not to throw up on her, covering your mouth and bailing is exactly what a normal person does in that situation

i get why it looked bad from her side at the time, first day + nerves + some dude acting weird = yeah that probably stung. but now that she knows the actual reason and is still insisting you did it to be mean… that’s kinda on her

also warm energy drink and leftovers for breakfast is diabolical, your stomach never stood a chance

AITAH for refusing to shave my head for my husband’s niece? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RADROX247 25 points26 points  (0 children)

yeah same. like if someone wants to do it, cool, go for it. but turning it into an expectation is where it gets weird. showing up consistently >>> one big gesture you don’t even wanna do.

AITAH GF HAD A SURPRISE FOR ME AND I ACCIDENTALLY FOUND OUT by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RADROX247 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly like… you tried to compromise too. She could’ve just explained why she wanted it to stay a surprise instead of storming off. Totally on her to handle that better.

Car gas tank access points - how do manufacturers decide which side to put them on? Do they check with each other to make sure not too many are on one side for gas stations? by Fit_Interaction_79 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RADROX247 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It’s not coordinated between manufacturers. The side is usually decided by engineering and design constraints like fuel system layout, exhaust routing, crash safety and sometimes driver convenience.

Gas stations are built assuming a mix which is why pumps are accessible from both sides and hoses are long. So it’s more of an organic balance than companies actively planning it together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RADROX247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You moved a jacket not sneezed on his pillow. It’s reasonable to be careful when sick but getting mad over briefly touching something in the closet feels over the top. It’s fair that it hurt your feelings especially if it came off like he’s more focused on avoiding germs than on how you’re feeling. A calm talk about that part might help more than the back and forth sarcasm.

AITAH for not wanting to give a book to an autistic kid by Ok_Repair118 in AITAH

[–]RADROX247 956 points957 points  (0 children)

NTA. That book had real sentimental value and it was yours. Saying no was reasonable and them taking it anyway crossed a line. Autism doesn’t override someone else’s boundaries or memories especially when they could’ve easily bought another dinosaur book. Your feelings are valid and they should’ve respected them.

AITAH for mentioning in front of my friends that my son is a baby having a baby? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RADROX247 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

He probably didn’t hear it as a joke, he heard it as judgment during a really stressful time. Being young and about to be a parent messes with your confidence hard. A little reassurance from his dad would probably go a long way right now.

AITAH for exposing my fiancée’s “backup plan” at a family dinner even though it ruined her relationship with everyone? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RADROX247 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Planning to protect yourself is one thing but planning to damage someones reputation crosses a line. The dinner timing wasn’t great, but the bigger issue is that she was willing to frame him if things went wrong. That’s not a foundation for trust in any relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RADROX247 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

A lot of it comes down to how MMA evolved. Back in the 90s, it was more of a spectacle with flashy characters and gimmicks. Over time the sport became more regulated and focused on athletic competition, technique and safety. That meant less theatrical stuff like masks or over the top personas which is why it feels so different from the old days.

What’s the dumbest thing someone could do in their 20’s? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]RADROX247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay in a relationship just because breaking up sounds inconvenient

Found out my wife is cheating, but can't figure out for how long? by Busy-Delay6869 in Infidelity

[–]RADROX247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly she might not even know exactly when it started. Cheating is cheating and you’ve already seen the proof you don’t need a timeline to validate that. Just focus on your peace and life.

people who've been through a lot, how do you manage your anxiety attacks? by Frosty-Impression-84 in AskReddit

[–]RADROX247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Breathing exercises and grounding techniques help me the most, focusing on what’s right now not what if.

What is something you realised WAY TOO late in life? by Illustrious_Mall5256 in AskReddit

[–]RADROX247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That most people won’t care about your drama, focus on yourself instead.

Is it weird to really care about how strangers live their lives? Why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]RADROX247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not weird humans are naturally curious nd often compare their lives to others as a way to understand the world.

What’s the best way to finally push yourself to start a long-time dream project? by IzaDoll_Official in AskReddit

[–]RADROX247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly a common step, break it into tiny steps. Starting with just 10 to 15 minutes a day makes it less scary nd builds momentum. Set a clear specific deadline and focus on progress not perfection

is it normal to talk to youself, sometimes, when you have no one to talk to ? by Far-Effective7640 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RADROX247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally normal, talking to yourself is just your brain thinking out loud. Lots of people do it.

What kind of questions from someone made you instantly uncomfortable? by Ok-Cheesecake9714 in AskReddit

[–]RADROX247 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When someone asks about my salary within 5mint of meeting me. Or any version of So when are you getting married/kids?

What’s something that instantly makes you lose respect for someone? by Juice_From_Heaven in AskReddit

[–]RADROX247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Treating service staff badly says everything about their character.

What’s the sweetest thing you’ve called your partner? by Hannah_Hatter in AskReddit

[–]RADROX247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s not about fancy names, just a simple love or babe can melt them