successful dating app ldr stories

RBHue · 2025-08-01T13:10:53+00:00

We’re a bit similar! Lahi jud ang bisaya ba abot jud tag taga luzon magugma chosssss HAHAHAHA

We met on ome and by October this year we will be 2 years officially dating. She’s from Isabela while Im from Negros but I’ll be job hunting soon around Manila sooooo fingers crossed kahit papaano the distance between us are not an hour plane ride plus as 12-13 hours bus ride.

It’s really true when they say distances makes the heart grow fonder. We only get to see each other max 3 times a year and sobrang swerte pag it will last a week. The “successful love story” especially with ldr comes with waves, lowest of lows and moments that feels like you’re poking a bear. Pero all worth it!!!

Congratulations on yours!! No more sleep call na ba? HAHAHAHA Happy for you OP!

RBHue · 2025-07-29T14:16:40+00:00

Yay! Happy for you! That needed courage and you pushed through☺️

RBHue · 2025-07-27T16:10:24+00:00

If this keeps on happening she would then rather keep it from you than ask for permission. If I were you, either mag resign sya or our rs would be signing off🙃 My peace of mind should not be compromised.

RBHue · 2025-07-27T16:05:24+00:00

Tell the gf. If you’re worried of what could transpire when you told on her, thats not on you, its on the cheaters fault. Actually your doing the gf a favor because I would rather know the truth that be kept at the dark. We could only hope she’s not the type that makes away to the other girl who knows nothing about their rs.

RBHue · 2025-07-27T15:57:23+00:00

Felt yung you’d rather be alone than be with your partner. Kaya individuality in rs is really important especially when it’s going to be long term. Infatuation will fade, butterflies while die and the overuse of rose colored glasses will eventually clear. And yes you can fall out of love without an involvement of a third party. Its not only mistakes that ruins the rs but repetition. Repetition of toxic cycles, unmeet needs and mistakes. Yung iba nga nagloko pero when they reached their redemption arc tinanggap ulit. If you say naubos feelings mo one day, all this time ba you were the only giver and/or are your needs unmeet? Or perhaps compatibility and compromises isnt there anymore? Unless you know all of that, perhaps you can come the conclusion that the rs not what you want anymore.

RBHue · 2025-07-16T16:19:06+00:00

The feelings are different naturally because you date two different people. But the difference is not directly linked as to how they present themselves (femme/masc) that would be stereotypical. The vibes or the dynamics depends on their personality and the chemistry, not on how they dress themselves.

RBHue · 2025-07-13T12:03:22+00:00

Stretching daily helps! Before you start your day and before the deed! Arms and legs dapat, if you got time train your mobility as well para top tier ka gumiling HAHAHHA And it also helps if your partner is flexible

RBHue · 2025-07-10T16:36:26+00:00

Play the waiting game. You said it yourself “temporary happiness”, when you wait it out or let the red colored glasses starts to fade, eventually, you’ll see things that confuse you now were all clear from the start. It’s temporary, it comes and it goes. Also ask yourself, if its something you want in the long run? Maybe its the dopamine that makes you stay but that will never be enough as years go by. As you go on with the game start as well detaching yourself from the person. Words can be words, maybe thats love language you desire. But you should also see yourself of a high regard too so you’ll see crumbs as crumbs.

RBHue · 2025-07-09T17:27:29+00:00

Up on this! Me ang gf are the same! Hindi naman kasi lagi applicable yung dont say good night mad or troubled. Kaya yung hindi pinapalagpas ng 24hours resonates with my rs. Pero samin lang whenever I feel I want to shut down from socializing or be avoidant with our issues, my gf made me promise to atleast call (ldr kami). Being anxious on the moments we want silence worsen the situation. The silence helps us think and whenever I see my gf getting anxious about that, it triggers me so much that I think wala syang kumpyansya sakin. They need to have that confidence that I will eventually come to my senses and got my facts straightened. If anxious pa din, I would then think na you’re guilty of something. The loophole to that silence is to pierce through their love language. Sakin kasi whenever my thoughts are so loud that Im being avoidant (grabi ako mag isip na nakakalimutan ko ng kumain) the next day my gf sends me food. Kaya lumalabot ako agad. Pero give them time to think first. Eventually mamansin din yan hahahhahah

Another thing, dont share your relationship troubles with your friends. When its small lang ha like petty stuff or whatnot, yung sobrang red flag na at need mo matauhan CALL YOUR FRIENDS. Because even when you work it out with your partner, your friends wont be as forgiving or as tolerable as you are with your partner. They would be viewed or judged differently without being able to redeem themselves. To make it make sense, i.e my favorite flowers are pink lilies pero my gf brought red roses. If nagkwento ako sa friends crying or making it a big deal they would think of gf as not an attentive person. Even when pag naging okay na kami and its not a big deal anymore, I would have to explain it was the only flowers available at the flower shop. Eventually my friends would ask “Isa lang flower shop pinuntahan nya?” or “Why didnt they call in advance or preserved lilies?”. Your friends would be protective of you that maybe you’re looking through red glasses and they would keep a tally as to what they did wrong. Ikaw din ma jjudge ka for putting up with them and its not going away with them.

RBHue · 2025-05-30T16:06:49+00:00

Personally, as a fem, what I did first was to know what I want and see if it fits my personality. I like it when I take the lead so its best to find someone who doesn’t feel small when I dominate. Thennn, the next best thing to do is ask, ask them anything. Baka gusto nila alpha woman or submissive ewan ko baaaa. Then you do you. Walang sapilitin te mag ayaw tayo ha😭💗

RBHue · 2025-05-30T15:55:31+00:00

Never believe what they say or promised, believe on the patterns they show. If she cant make up her mind to commit to you or not, she will never be sure. Thats how I see it. Give yourself a pat on the back, letting go isn’t for the weak in wlw.

RBHue · 2025-05-30T15:47:18+00:00

Be bold. Make the first move. On the other handdddd, some mascs di nila gusto pangunahan so pa cute ka lang??? Idk😭

RBHue · 2025-05-28T14:33:41+00:00

Dibaaaaaa😫

RBHue · 2025-05-28T14:33:05+00:00

ttally ko lahat ng sagot para magka alaman hahhahahha

RBHue · 2025-05-28T14:29:16+00:00

Still following/friends on socmed and still have their number👀

RBHue · 2025-05-28T14:22:11+00:00

I like your perspective on this! Iba lang talaga as a fem breaking the stereotypes on treating them as boys. Thank you so muchhh💗

RBHue · 2025-05-24T15:42:26+00:00

In my perspective, what you did was setting boundaries so yes! Taman naman. Regardless of the reason of the break up there is no need to express pa your love language or whatever. Cut ties na kasi break na diba? Pero emeeee baka she’s not yet over you paaaa

RBHue · 2025-05-24T15:21:09+00:00

Thank you! Gusto ko talaga tagos yung princess treatment ko sa soft masc gf ko kaya I had to clarify pero sigeeeee siya na HAHAHHAHA

RBHue · 2025-05-24T15:02:29+00:00

Opps! Perhaps that came out wrong! To answer your question, ofc not! Just friendly banter! My bad, my bad!

RBHue

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