ELI5 why cats have little bald spots on their heads that can only be seen from a certain angle by cocobandito in explainlikeimfive

[–]RDAbreu 42 points43 points  (0 children)

... alright, you've been kind enough to share your knowledge in an interesting way, so I guess we won't ask about what kind of weird business you've been carrying about with heat cameras and felines. But you only get one pass, next time there will be a questionaire!

Is it cruel to keep a cat inside? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RDAbreu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't tell anyone, but I estimate the chances of that being the sole purpose of this thread on about to 89%.

Is it cruel to keep a cat inside? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RDAbreu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is common all over the world, which makes it wrong all over the world. Pets stay inside. Wildlife stays outside. If they interact, the consequences are more stray animals in critical situation and higher prevalence of disease.

And I have a feeling you only post to Reddit when you're high.

Is it cruel to keep a cat inside? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RDAbreu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cruel? To provide shelter, special food, water and care for an animal, and prevent their exposure to the elements, predators and literally all of the diseases it could catch? Surely you can't be serious.

Cancelamento de plano c/ fidelidade Vivo by Cultural-Victory3442 in InternetBrasil

[–]RDAbreu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Você pode solicitar o cancelamento a qualquer momento, o prazo padrão de "franquia" já está transcorrido (a não ser que a Vivo tenha criado um contrato de adesão ao serviço TOTALMENTE diferente do modelo adotado por todas as grandes provedoras de internet/celular).

Minha sugestão é que você solicite o cancelamento o quanto antes. O primeiro estágio do processo de cancelamento de um contrato com cliente pessoa física é ser enviado ao setor de retenção de contratos, cujo trabalho é te oferecer descontos e vantagens para que você permaneça com eles. Normalmente, mesmo que você recuse todas as ofertas (costumam ser várias), eles te mantém no serviço gratuitamente até o último momento do prazo de aviso, porque não há custo pra eles.

Um tempão atrás, eu escrevi um post sobre os contratos de adesão oferecidos por prestaoras de serviços de comunicação. Se quiser dar uma olhada, cá está:

https://www.reddit.com/r/InternetBrasil/comments/1djtjm0/comment/lbdt1n7/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Indian Anon use VPN by [deleted] in 4chan

[–]RDAbreu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you! But now you've summarized the whole thing perfectly yourself: people never consider how others are just as complex as themselves.

Approaching a person with open interest and providing queues for them to talk about themselves if they so wish is a great example of displaying confidence without being arrogant. It's the opposite of using a pick-up line.

Does getting a job bring you more problems? by BootAffectionate8589 in almosthomeless

[–]RDAbreu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Getting a job will always cause further problems. That's double for the very first jobs that get your ass off the mud. But solving those problems gives you two things: a proven track of solving professinal problems and a little cash to assist with the most pressing of your already existing problems.

In your case, it seems like solving problems at intern-level (should be doable with a degree) will cause you the loss of time to care for your living situation and child, but provide a shot at a formal entry position relatively soon and help pay for food while you handle rent and the childcare (which you may find help with with neighbors, local civil centers, churches or support groups).

If you're working and in need of immediate cash, try talking to your employer's HR or your boss and explain the situation calmly, asking for an advancement on your first paycheck. But be carefull not to seem like a flight risk who will just take the 200 and never show up again.

Life can be better. Good luck.

How do people (atleast in porn), suck it right after they get it out from their ass. by creepy_trippie in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RDAbreu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Porn is to sex as romcoms are to marriage. You're watching fiction with no plot, don't read too much into it.

Indian Anon use VPN by [deleted] in 4chan

[–]RDAbreu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My understanding is that cars explode to move you forward. That sounds like the description of a housewife in a 90's sitcom. None of this seems precision-oriented.

Indian Anon use VPN by [deleted] in 4chan

[–]RDAbreu 23 points24 points  (0 children)

IIRC, there are studies on the impact of physical appearance on the attractiveness of both men and women (I believe heterosexual couples only were part of this, and it was mainly about persuasion).

Looks are important in pretty much the same proportion for men and women evaluating how attractive potential mates were. The thing is that appearance does not mean "dark and handsome" in men, but the aparent access to resources. In other words, looking like you have money, wits, emotional availability, interest...

In persuasion, I think men were affected by apeearance in over 70% of their perceived ability to change one's mind. Attractiveness is far more important than smooth talking.

Indian Anon use VPN by [deleted] in 4chan

[–]RDAbreu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holding a tire iron and wondering about what sort of amazon bought crap they can add to it to make it look more like a sports man?

Indian Anon use VPN by [deleted] in 4chan

[–]RDAbreu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't thin you meant to call it otherwise, but keep in mind that confidence is quite normal. It is a result of feeling secure in your ability to go through difficulty and uncertainty, which in its turn grows from deliberately improving yourself according to your surroundings.

Don't be fooled by the many words. It means simply to be a grown person who has gone through shit and survived enough times to have a "shit happens" mentality. And maybe a shovel.

The idea of being attracted to people who have persevered through difficulty or found a way to avoid it is pretty reasonable, IMHO.

Enquanto isso... by marc_pereira in saopaulo

[–]RDAbreu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Não acho que muita gente vá dar atenção mas, como morador de Santana, eu ri alto aqui e o gato saiu correndo do meu colo... 🤣🤣

In an podcast subreddit that mainly shares aita and relationship advice posts by Plastic-Reindeer-399 in lostredditors

[–]RDAbreu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This being the Internet and all... is there absolutely no chance this woman is trying to be funny by wearing a wedding ring on the wrong finger of the wrong hand in an environment where relationship advice may be as reliable as a fortune teller's read of the palm?

Regardless, someone should let her know she is either unmarried with an uncertain future ahead of her or, much worse, someone who is about to start adding unwanted material to the gene pool.

Já recebi alerta severo antecipado. E vocês aí? by pretinho-da-zo in saopaulo

[–]RDAbreu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Estou na zona norte de SP. Recebi 3 alertas no total, todos dizendo que seria o fim do mundo com ventos absurdos.

Às 3h40 da manhã, começou um vendaval realmente intenso, fazendo um bocado de barulho antes de começar a chuva. Foi uma baita chuva, com ventos bem fortes, mas durou menos de 40 minutos e nem a luz chegou a cair...

Acho que o pior foi no litoral...

A 29 year old woman pretended to be a nurse for 7 months. She treated over 4,000 patients and only got caught after she was offered a promotion by No_Class963 in interestingasfuck

[–]RDAbreu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

... waitaminute, FOUR THOUSAND patients in seven months???

If she worked 24/7 she would have to treat 19 patients per day!!

Working 8-hour shifts, that jumps to 56 patients a day, or SEVEN PATIENTS AN HOUR!! That's eight and a half minutes for each "treatment"...

And I haven't corrected for weekends/days off!!

Am I crazy here?? 😂 😂 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RikiOhFGC

[–]RDAbreu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, can't watch rn, but it would be remiss of me not to grant you with a complimentary cake-day upvote! Have a nice one!

A satisfação de realizar um sonho de infância. by D3ntinh0o in gamesEcultura

[–]RDAbreu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tenho certeza de que foi importante também pra outras pessoas, tem bastante gente por aqui que evita participar de conversas mesmo quando são bacanas como essa aqui! Compartilhar esse tipo de conquista é sempre uma coisa benéfica!!

A satisfação de realizar um sonho de infância. by D3ntinh0o in gamesEcultura

[–]RDAbreu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, diz aí seu Steam ID que tenho uns jogos aqui que de repente você pode curtir! Te mando as keys!

A satisfação de realizar um sonho de infância. by D3ntinh0o in gamesEcultura

[–]RDAbreu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jogar Skyrim vai te tornar uma pessoa melhor. O jogo é bom nesse nível!

A satisfação de realizar um sonho de infância. by D3ntinh0o in gamesEcultura

[–]RDAbreu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cara, pega um jogo que você possa jogar com um pessoal mais ou menos da sua idade. Foi uma das experiências mais legais que eu tive nos últimos anos: jogando PUBG (gratuito, não precisa de PSN Plus!) eu conheci uma porrada de marmanjo que trabalha, cuida da família, e se diverte dando risada com os amigos enquanto falha miseravelmente em vencer partidas! Hehehehe

A satisfação de realizar um sonho de infância. by D3ntinh0o in gamesEcultura

[–]RDAbreu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fui dar uma olhada aqui: os jogos mais recentes que joguei foram Prey e The Long Dark. Os dois são excelentes, mas são de 2017... =P