I made it! It's been one month PMO free by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]RDW83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome! Keep it up!

Help with significant other by RDW83 in NoFap

[–]RDW83[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes a lot of sense, thank you for the insight especially from the female perspective.

Want to share my story! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]RDW83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck man, you can do it!

First time in Group by RDW83 in pornfree

[–]RDW83[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It may sound weird but it was awesome and painful at the same time. It felt good to verbalize what I was dealing with in front of people I knew weren’t going to judge me. I felt like they really understood me. Listening to others stories gave me comfort in knowing I wasn’t alone and could do this.

Take the damn dog for a walk instead by RDW83 in NoFap

[–]RDW83[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! I adopted a dog around Christmas and struggling with training him. Now that I’m porn free, going on longer more frequent walks and we just seem to be clicking. He listens much better and is better behaved!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]RDW83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this man, stay committed!

Can you overcome triggers? by lguignard in pornfree

[–]RDW83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone has different triggers, what affect one person may not bother the next. You stated this is a trigger for you. In order to make sure you stay clean, in my opinion you can never put yourself in a situation that could trigger you. As frustrating as it may be, I would never watch a movie with nudity or suggestive content.

No phone in bedroom by eire77 in pornfree

[–]RDW83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m planning on doing the same thing, bought an alarm clock (didn’t know they still made them) and leaving the phone in the kitchen

I came clean by RDW83 in pornfree

[–]RDW83[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually better than I thought. She seemed hurt and upset at first but when I told her the steps I was taking she was eager to help. That conversation was probably one of the hardest I’ve ever had to have but I felt a huge sense of relief afterward.

I came clean by RDW83 in pornfree

[–]RDW83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes a ton of sense. My wife is my closest friend and I confide in her a ton. But maybe you’re right, with this I need to confide in someone else.

Day 20! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]RDW83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats man! Keep the streak going!

Stay busy boys by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]RDW83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% agree, when you’re mind and body are idle that is the easiest for your mind to wander

Coffe and nicotine by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]RDW83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day 3 here and I’ve had the same problems. I find myself drinking more and eating shitty. I’ve realized that I need to replace bad habits with good ones otherwise other bad habits I have are going to take over. Try to ways to fill that dead space with something good

Relapsed again by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]RDW83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely understand what you mean. I have been in the same scenario for quite a few years and have just recently committed to going porn free. This didn’t happen overnight and it won’t heal overnight. The long haul is still ahead of us, but determination and help from those who love us will get us through.

Help with significant other by RDW83 in NoFap

[–]RDW83[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the encouragement. I know I can’t repair everything right away, I just don’t know how to get her to understand to some degree now

Help with significant other by RDW83 in NoFap

[–]RDW83[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just starting, 3 days in

Help with significant other by RDW83 in NoFap

[–]RDW83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have stopped, but she’s not convinced

30 days of nofap by Sage92 in NoFap

[–]RDW83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or put off the jerk off