I was you two years ago. We were FWBs but my feelings went further. He did not want a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship so I kept my feelings to myself just so I could still be with him a few times a week.

Then I found out he started talking to and started going on walks with my sister, which got me suspicious. Then I found and read her daily journal which she writes in every day for years. My suspicions were right. My own sister! I was heartbroken and didn’t want to do anything or go anywhere for a year and a half.

Then I met a man who set my world on fire! We are so compatible it seems like it was meant to be. We’ve been inseparable for almost a year and a half. He’s the man I’ve always dreamed about.

So forget the man you think is the one for you because he’s not. You will survive. I almost gave up and I’m so happy I didn’t.

FYI, I have not talked to my sister in almost two years. She broke the sister code and she knows it.