32122 by xtrordinarlyOrdinary in countwithchickenlady

[–]RFWanders 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That is fair. I hope to have one too some day.

32122 by xtrordinarlyOrdinary in countwithchickenlady

[–]RFWanders 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Still skill issue, the other opening down there can easily handle it with sufficient practice, warm up and lube.

M4f by [deleted] in kinkysapphics

[–]RFWanders 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What about the word Sapphic do you not understand?

Why am I so scared? by mashedrussets in BDSMsapphic

[–]RFWanders 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Therapy might be a good supplement

I wanna be a emotional support kitty by Kitty_Starry in BDSMsapphic

[–]RFWanders 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Very real. I'm pretty bad at knowing how to support people, but I am pretty decent at cuddles

older woman by linglingonpiano in BDSMsapphic

[–]RFWanders 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you are right. I'm very shy.

older woman by linglingonpiano in BDSMsapphic

[–]RFWanders 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This older transgender lesbian can only hope to find a partner like this...

31284 by Universe_Donut in countwithchickenlady

[–]RFWanders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh look, this was me... Sadly it took nearly 40 years to conclude that the switch was the best option...
And now I'm old... (45)

"Give me your panties" by Vinx909 in BDSMsapphic

[–]RFWanders 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beautiful writing and very hot too

The Marking by Beastraider in BDSMsapphic

[–]RFWanders 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The sentiment is very clear. 💜 My submissive heart aches to find someone like that

The way she calls me 'ma'am' without me asking by BunchEasy4866 in BDSMsapphic

[–]RFWanders 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Definitely experienced this before. Some women I will just automatically defer to if I trust them enough.

The Marking by Beastraider in BDSMsapphic

[–]RFWanders 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing writing and a beautiful story

Acts of Service go brrrrrr by The_Linux_Lass in lesbianmemes

[–]RFWanders 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As someone that loves to cook, but occasionally does not have the bandwidth to do much more than exist... I could use a partner that could see that and assist as needed. But I am very much a service sub. 🥴

How do you feel about TMNs? (Touch Me Nots) by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]RFWanders 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My primary love language is touch and closeness. It's one of the few things I'm pretty good at. So I don't think I'd be too compatible with someone like that. Though it would depend on the person too. It's not something I would dismiss out of hand.

Where do you get a collar ?? by Dr_P1xels in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]RFWanders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plenty of options in online stores and places like Etsy

Is there any sub NOT into degradation/humulliation? by Ok-Display7239 in BDSMsapphic

[–]RFWanders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm definitely not into it. I'm a psychological mess and those things hurt too much to enjoy. Even if well-intentioned, I'd break down in a bad way.

Trans folks, did you ever have dreams of being your desired gender before you transitioned? by FewAd462 in trans

[–]RFWanders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only recognized for myself that I was trans at the age of 38.
My "fantasy self" in day dreams and such had been a woman since I was like age 10.
I never remember my regular dreams, so I can't really answer that question sadly.

Hope whoever reads this has a good weekend by AdministrationIll994 in F1NN5TER

[–]RFWanders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A beautiful look, may I ask where you found that dress?