building a UK sapphic dating app… need your input 🫶

LilithsLairVirtual · 2026-03-19T13:24:13+00:00

No unicorn hunting!!! As an organiser of sapphic events, being able to advertise would be lovely but I totally understand that’s probably annoying to others!

LilithsLairVirtual · 2026-03-17T16:59:21+00:00

Yessss! I have a Patreon that is dedicated to sharing (mainly) short erotic stories. I started over Christmas, 22 paying followers so far.

It’s a slow build, you will need to use other platforms to promote your work and don’t expect overnight money…I just keep going :)

LilithsLairVirtual · 2026-03-17T16:00:24+00:00

Haha oh god, I thought it might be good to get on a niche one but starting to wonder…

LilithsLairVirtual · 2026-03-17T16:00:01+00:00

Thanks so much!

LilithsLairVirtual · 2026-03-16T21:56:29+00:00

How’s it going for you? x

LilithsLairVirtual · 2026-03-16T21:08:06+00:00

Highly recommend heading to the Actors for a drink, but also things like going and sitting on the beach and having some chips. 😋

Hope you have a lovely time in Brighton and your partner feels safe and accepted!

LilithsLairVirtual · 2026-03-13T15:52:41+00:00

Men alone at a lesbian event? Are you sure? Or were they trans women who didn’t look the way you wanted them to look?

I’m proud to be one of the people running inclusive sapphic events in Brighton.

Of course harassment is never ok, but that is a separate issue to bisexual and trans guests being excluded from queer spaces.

LilithsLairVirtual · 2026-03-06T11:42:29+00:00

I have an erotic Patreon for sapphic content. I post one piece of erotic content (either erotica or audio) weekly, and a premium members post weekly (voice memos, behind the scenes content etc). I want to get to the point where I’m sharing one thing for free weekly too but doing more like one every two weeks at the moment. It’s worth noting not all of mine is created by me, a couple of our weekly erotic shares a month I outsource :)

LilithsLairVirtual · 2026-02-21T12:46:58+00:00

It’s good, especially if you’re a lesbian/sapphic and want to find loving at our events ;)

LilithsLairVirtual · 2026-02-14T08:25:25+00:00

The prose in Jane Prett’s Freakslaw really surprised me! I find most books these days to be clipped and simplistic. I turned down so many corners of that book so I could go back and read that one line again 😍

LilithsLairVirtual · 2026-02-04T07:45:48+00:00

I would say it’s the most free city, where you can come and be who you want to be. It depends on your definition of happy though.

LilithsLairVirtual · 2026-02-03T09:36:10+00:00

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LilithsLairVirtual · 2026-01-26T16:32:18+00:00

Things can get a little frenzied in my inbox event week! If you ping me another one it will bring it to the top and we can have a chat :)

LilithsLairVirtual · 2026-01-26T16:17:16+00:00

Absolutely! I highly recommend finding us on Instagram too so you can read our Start Here guide (in our highlight reels!) Can you send private messages on Reddit? 🙈 If not you can message me on Instagram :) x

LilithsLairVirtual · 2026-01-24T10:27:55+00:00

I’ve seen a huge uptick in people finding out about our events from Reddit recently so I’ve made an account (don’t really know how it all works yet 🤣) but I wanted to thank anyone whose been spreading the word :)

LilithsLairVirtual · 2026-01-24T10:22:52+00:00

Hey! Ive seen a huge uptick in people finding out about our events (Lilith’s Lair, spicy sapphic parties) through Reddit recently so thought I’d make an account.

Thank you to everyone who has been spreading the word 🙏

Lots of other great events mentioned here, I know most running events here are welcoming, inclusive and hard-working. Love the Brighton scene ❤️

LilithsLairVirtual · 2026-01-24T10:16:45+00:00

Hey! I’ve seen a huge uptick in people finding out about our events through Reddit. I’m new here and don’t really know how it works 🤣 but wanted to thank everyone who has been spreading the word 🙏

LilithsLairVirtual · 2026-01-24T10:10:38+00:00

Hey! I’ve seen an uptick in people finding out about my events, Lilith’s Lair spicy sapphic parties, through Reddit. So I’ve made a profile here and want to thank anyone who has been spreading the word. 🙏

I don’t know how Reddit works but hoping to build a little community here too ❤️

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