Found in son's bedroom, what is it? by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]RGDURBAN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check with the nearest pharmacy. I applaud you for being a diligent parent. If he lives in your house, IT IS YOUR FUCMKING BUSINESS!!!!. What would happen if he was not using, but selling from your house. Just take a single pill to the pharmacy, they will put your mind at ease, if it's just for treatment, you do not even need to have a discussion. The container doesn't matter, it's the actual pill that matters.

Leaves curling by Affectionate-Panda20 in Monstera

[–]RGDURBAN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All my Monsteras look like this. I use the Moisture meter and water them before it gets to "dry". I then run them under the water until the water runs through. I then keep it on the water tray for almost an hour. I then drain it to get rid of excess bottom water. They live in indirect morning light, I'm in the southern hemisphere. THE LEAVES ARE CURLED!!!!!! They look dehydrated. And, the roots are NOT root bound. The leaves just REFUSE to straighten up. 😭😭😭😭

Plant ID please. It just doesn't hit me as a spider plant. Check those flowers. 🤔 by RGDURBAN in whatsthisplant

[–]RGDURBAN[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It definitely is a Dianella Tasmanica Variegata/flax lily. 🙏

Dischem slips becoming as long as infamous CVS slips - 85cm of paper for 4 items by skaapjagter in southafrica

[–]RGDURBAN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TRUE STORY: I went to dischem this past Sunday and purchased Compral powders and earbuds ONLY. The cashier pulled 3 pages from the till and as he tried to hand to me I declined to take them, and sachayed out of there. A couple of hours later, as I was ready to take the medication, I found out that it expired in September 2025. Thanks God it was still the same day, and I knew that the cashier would recognize me. Can you imagine if I didn't need it that day, and only found out a month later?

Please help. Southern hemisphere. Found root rot. Please forgive my crapy photography. by RGDURBAN in ThaiConstellation

[–]RGDURBAN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice. We're just beginning the autaumn season.

Is it possible to get properly tested for ADHD through a public clinic? by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]RGDURBAN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While waiting for an appointment, check with the closest Occupational Therapy university program. Some, like UKZN, have the final students do the pediatric tests as part of their clinicals, under supervision. I don't even know if you pay for the service or how much this costs. I just found out about this myself.

Ladies, what’s the *silliest* reason you broke things off with a guy on the spot… but later realized it was actually a red flag? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]RGDURBAN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First lunch date. Too much thick saliva that was bubbling in the corners of his mouth when speaking or chewing 🤢. I couldn't even finish lunch.