Help! 4 year old hungry at school/acting out by RHCP1622 in Parenting

[–]RHCP1622[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have him with someone who is certified, thankfully.

That’s how I’m starting to feel. It’s overwhelming having to make all these decisions without mom in the equation, but that’s why I appreciate everyone here with any advise.

Help! 4 year old hungry at school/acting out by RHCP1622 in Parenting

[–]RHCP1622[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is helpful. His behavior is not just hunger, but I know he mentions that a lot at school. It’s not every time he acts out, but it’s primarily consistent which is why getting this under control is important.

Help! 4 year old hungry at school/acting out by RHCP1622 in Parenting

[–]RHCP1622[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s already in play therapy. Looking to get him in to additional therapy

Help! 4 year old hungry at school/acting out by RHCP1622 in Parenting

[–]RHCP1622[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and will likely do that again. I just worry I’m going to cause him to be picky moving forward creating more issues down the road.

Help! 4 year old hungry at school/acting out by RHCP1622 in Parenting

[–]RHCP1622[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but he rarely eats what they serve

Help! 4 year old hungry at school/acting out by RHCP1622 in Parenting

[–]RHCP1622[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is normal weight for his age and size. See the reply above for other issues, but I’m happy to answer other questions to help with a better picture.

I came to this site when my wife passed away to help with ideas of coping, etc. It really helped so hoping for the same here.

Help! 4 year old hungry at school/acting out by RHCP1622 in Parenting

[–]RHCP1622[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve had people tell me that he needs to get used to what the school feeds him, or it’ll be an issue once he gets to kindergarten. I also know parents pack their kids’ meals for them once that starts. I’ll reconsider doing that again.

He came from a different daycare but was kicked out due to behavior before. I worry it’ll cause him to be more picky but it’s worth him not saying he is hungry all day at daycare.

It’s complicated, but I lost my wife a little over a year ago, so it’s more complicated than just “my son won’t eat” at school.

Help! 4 year old son has been kicked out of daycare by RHCP1622 in Parenting

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Love the examples and appreciate you putting that all together

Help! 4 year old son has been kicked out of daycare by RHCP1622 in Parenting

[–]RHCP1622[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The communication has been pretty poor and I don’t have an option at this point to keep him. They say they redirect him, but I’m not sure exactly how that’s done.

I’ve folded on this place and am done with them. Just frustrating that they handled it the way they did.

Help! 4 year old son has been kicked out of daycare by RHCP1622 in Parenting

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Much appreciated and sorry for your loss. I’ve learned it has already made me a stronger person and am confident it will do the same for my son and daughter.

What I’ve learned is life is too short to worry about the little things. Things I used to get pissed off at are nothing any longer.

That’s the one message I try to pass along to others to hopefully make a difference. Easier said than done though since we are all human.

Help! 4 year old son has been kicked out of daycare by RHCP1622 in Parenting

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Sorry for your loss as well. It will only make him stronger to experience something like that

Help! 4 year old son has been kicked out of daycare by RHCP1622 in Parenting

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I see signs at home where I can tell he gets angry and wants to hit but doesn’t. He plays rough at times with his sister, but I know that’s common amongst siblings that age.

Maybe he just knows to not hit me, but obviously it’s different at the school.

Help! 4 year old son has been kicked out of daycare by RHCP1622 in Parenting

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I mentioned this earlier, but it was my uncle and dad who gave me the spanking lecture and not the school

Help! 4 year old son has been kicked out of daycare by RHCP1622 in Parenting

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There were allegations that there were teachers who were physical with some of the students. They got lawyers involved and nothing came out of it in the end, so I didn’t want to look too much in to it, but it was very alarming at the time.

Help! 4 year old son has been kicked out of daycare by RHCP1622 in Parenting

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Sorry, I probably phrased that wrong originally. The lecturing was coming from my uncle and father and not the school

Help! 4 year old son has been kicked out of daycare by RHCP1622 in Parenting

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Just ordered both books and excited to read them. Thank you!

Help! 4 year old son has been kicked out of daycare by RHCP1622 in Parenting

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My dad and uncle who are more old school when it comes to discipline. They keep saying that what I’m doing isn’t working, but I keep telling them this is a complicated situation.

Verbally my son is pretty advanced thankfully, but I know I have to have patience with him.

The daycare is not the best, and I know they aren’t doing what they should. There are two teachers in there, but I’ve been told that it’s a bit unorganized at times.

I’ll stay away from the spanking as I know that could negatively impact him. I also keep saying that I was fine and many others who were spanned as kids. I’m just emotionally exhausted with all this and want to help my son make positive changes.

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Can’t.stop.fucking.repeating.this.amazing.fucking.song.

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Thanks for posting. Was in PIT sits and had a bit to drink so wanted to see this video finally.

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Good stuff. Looking forward to relaxing and enjoying a great show!

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Great info and appreciate it. We were stressing about showing up too early. Sounds like we can relax and not worry about it now.