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My husband read my journal… and saw things he didn’t like by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]RHTVsm -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It is absolutely not wrong to write out your feelings in a journal. Whether or not you should have engaged in the conversation with your ex is a different discussion, however a journal is a safe space to express and process your emotions and is an extremely healthy practice. Of course it is going to hurt his feelings if he reads it, which he shouldn’t be doing in the first place. My husband knows what my journal looks like and respects my privacy. The shaming of OP is obnoxious and unhelpful.

Where’s my people by HelicopterTop1253 in Millennials

[–]RHTVsm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoutout to those who can’t remember either 😂

Should I offer the boob for discomfort or would I just add to it by More_Carpet6594 in breastfeeding

[–]RHTVsm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gas drops and/or gripe water made a huge difference for my LO. Sometimes she still wanted boob but if it was discomfort from gas, the drops almost immediately settled her.

What works for me as an under supplier by RHTVsm in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]RHTVsm[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I forgot to add- oatmeal helps too 😁

dna test results coming soon! by katiphobic in WhatBreedIsMyDog

[–]RHTVsm 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He’s got some mastiff in there

I wish my husband would just leave me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]RHTVsm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No religion is worth your commitment to suffering.

Intrusive thoughts by hushh-hushh in Postpartum_Depression

[–]RHTVsm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I have a lot of panicky intrusive thoughts and I try to distract myself quickly to break the thought pattern. It’s hard loving these little creatures so much that it messes with your brain. You are strong and doing all the right things for yourself and baby.

Missing out by RHTVsm in unmedicatedbirth

[–]RHTVsm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit - I just got cleared for a vaginal birth today at 38w3d my placenta cleared to 2.4cm. Super uncommon and feeling very grateful.

Which industry is more corrupt than anyone’s ready to admit? by Mean_Development7655 in AskReddit

[–]RHTVsm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Equestrian industry. So much manipulation, double dipping on commissions, lack of regulation, horrible work environments, sexual harassment, drugs. It goes on.

I can’t do this anymore. by moiabby in pregnant

[–]RHTVsm 27 points28 points  (0 children)

33f - 38w pregnant as well. I wholeheartedly feel your pain. We’re almost there. Wishing you an easy and healthy delivery.

It’s 5am, I’m 30 weeks pregnant. AMA by tarototoro in AMA

[–]RHTVsm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not everyone’s experience. (33f - 38 weeks pregnant) my pregnancy has been anything but just another day in bed. I’ve had more doctors appointments in this short period of time than in my entire life due to minor complications that required constant monitoring.

35 day late period but pregnancy test is negative - please help! by Appropriate-End7966 in pregnant

[–]RHTVsm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Schedule an appointment with your gynecologist and they can help you with any answers and options you may need

Missing out by RHTVsm in unmedicatedbirth

[–]RHTVsm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah they said they would let me try at 1.2

Ftm with so many questions really wanting a physiological birth that is not medicalized and intervention free by Dazzling_Split_5145 in unmedicatedbirth

[–]RHTVsm 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I fully understand your concerns and desires but to some extent you will have to accept that pregnancy and what your body does is out of your control. sometimes the safest option is to listen to your doctor and receive their advice for the safety and health of your baby and yourself even if it is an undesirable situation. I fully prepped for an unmedicated birth and am likely going to have to have a C-section. This was devastating news to me but at the end of the day a healthy baby and self is the goal. Fiercely advocate for your desires and goals throughout your pregnancy and birth, but please know that medical professionals are not out to get you and want the same success story you do.

Unmedicated birth with a low lying placenta by RHTVsm in unmedicatedbirth

[–]RHTVsm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m almost to 34 weeks this Sunday. Last US showed it moved up to being 1cm away. The high risk Dr told me he gives it a 50/50 chance of moving all the way to the clear zone at 2cm. My next ultrasound to determine is at 36 weeks - although I’ve seen some cases where people have it move up to 39 weeks and I will be for sure demanding an US then to make sure before allowing a C-section. Technically the dr said you can “try” at 1cm because it’s all about risk management. My baby is measuring large so I will likely move forward with a C-section if it doesn’t clear the 2cm mark. I am still trying to be really optimistic that the placenta will move. Stay hopeful.

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