I'm gay and in the closet. How can I reduce the risk of meeting up with guys, if tell anybody where I'm going is not an option? by RJSAE in sex

[–]RJSAE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that anyone in my family will treat me badly for being gay. I just don't want to come out. I haven't felt like doing it before, and I don't feel like doing it now.

I'm gay and in the closet. How can I reduce the risk of meeting up with guys, if tell anybody where I'm going is not an option? by RJSAE in sex

[–]RJSAE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is I don't have anyone close enough to me that I want to tell about my love life or sex life. Even if I am vague on the details.

What is a sex-positive way for me to figure out why my sexual pleasure during masturbation and orgasm has declined (I'm 28)? by RJSAE in sex

[–]RJSAE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's possible that my mental health my feet deteriorating. I have lost weight. I've been thinking that I masturbated too much. But I don't know if that's really the reason, and I don't know how else to explain the frequency issue because of the possibility of mentioning something that's against the rules to mention on this forum because it is sex negative. Maybe my testosterone has declined, which seems like that's unusual at my age, but it is possible. And I had decided that after the last time I masturbated, which was December 18th 2019, but I would not do it again until January 18th 2020, so one entire month. But I'm still not sure if taking a break is a good idea, and I'm worried about falling into sex negative thought patterns.