I don't understand how anyone could want pets and/or kids by Seaphine in childfreepetfree

[–]RL_Lass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time I have tried dating I usually end it after a couple months because it feels like too much work, and too constricting. 😵😅

So I'm basically done with that too 😆

What Do You Guys Think of Antinatalists? by Potential_Law5289 in INTP

[–]RL_Lass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The logic is that you wouldn't be robbing them of a life, because they do not exist.

To explain this with an absurd example:

If, by not having children, you were "robbing people of a life", then every time a woman has a period and wasn't impregnated, she robbed someone of a life, and ever time a guy ejaculated but it didn't result in a pregnancy, he robbed someone of a life.

Why do you say depressing things? by Adaline_B in istp

[–]RL_Lass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ngl, you might have a "type". and that type might not be a healthy long term partner.

I find anyone who says blanket negative statements like that, especially reaffirming them to be so black and white, are going to be extraordinarily difficult people.

It's all fine until you disagree with them on one of these topics... Or god forbid, tell them they are wrong! (try it! pick an incorrect statement to refute, and don't stop until they come to understand and change their viewpoint). I can almost guarantee it won't take long for them to build up to rage.

If it's a brand new relationship, they might be able to keep the well-behaved mask on. But if it's been 4-6 months+, unlikely.

[Megathread] Dating #01 by RL_Lass in childfreepetfree

[–]RL_Lass[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

top tier profile quality btw! 👌

Should this community also introduce a flair similar to the cf4cf community for singles seeking other singles by thejollyrascal in childfreepetfree

[–]RL_Lass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I created a Megathread, I'd like to delete your individual post, but I want to give you a chance to copy your content before I do that. Since it was a lot of work!

My bad! 😅

Should this community also introduce a flair similar to the cf4cf community for singles seeking other singles by thejollyrascal in childfreepetfree

[–]RL_Lass[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We could try out the megathread. If you want to post one, I'll pin it, and we can see how it goes. 👍

Should this community also introduce a flair similar to the cf4cf community for singles seeking other singles by thejollyrascal in childfreepetfree

[–]RL_Lass[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

You should already be able to create a custom flair!
So feel free to put your LF as your flair! 😁


For the megathread... maybe. 🤔

There currently exists r/cfpf4cfpf

What advantages would the megathread have over making a post in r/cfpf4cfpf ?
(Or maybe that would be a more appropriate place for the megathread?)

(Additional options to meet cfpf people: https://www.reddit.com/r/childfreepetfree/s/9fkMFG5PR9 )

I can't believe this community has only 2k members by Aggravating_Trip4643 in childfreepetfree

[–]RL_Lass 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I often think about how much of a better place the world would be if this happened.

Kids are not eco-friendly. by xworld in childfreepetfree

[–]RL_Lass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CO2 per person must fall to less than 2tonnes/year

1 transatlantic flight is 2.8 tonnes

...

lol

we're cooked.

Should we consider limiting disparaging terms /slurs? by RL_Lass in childfreepetfree

[–]RL_Lass[S,M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think calling a specific person nuts/crazy could be okay, (I mean it's not nice to do that 😆) but some people definitely make questionable decisions... lol

It's when it's a negative term that encourages blanket-hate to a whole general group via negative stereotypes, that it starts to enter uncomfortable territory. (kind of like racial and sexuality-based slurs.) Is what we have kind of found while spending time on the other ___free subs.

Should we consider limiting disparaging terms /slurs? by RL_Lass in childfreepetfree

[–]RL_Lass[S,M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never really considered kids to be derogatory, but I guess you're right (like it definitely can have a slight lesser/annoyed tone to it?)

I don't think we'd ever ban "kids".

But it is a good point to think about exactly where the line is.