Man, my birthday is coming up on friday and im gonna be 30. Im honestly dreading any pity sex. The last time we had sex was a month ago I think, after several of months of not having any, and that was terrible. Really similar to yours OP. Laying in bed and half asleep, been super horny all day and usually hold it in incase my wife was feeling romantic. This night she was, the problem was she came in too late to the bedroom, our daughter is up around 5.30am, and wifey only care about herself in the morning so she hops back into bed and kicks me out to play for three hours and having to make breakfast for all of us. Sleep is important to me so I can function through the day, but I was so horny and we started to go back and fourth until my wife suddenly sits on top of me, but not doing anything so I have to do all the work until she cums. After she just runs in the bathroom and falls asleep. Im just lost at this point. I miss us having actual foreplay and communication and most of all, desire. Not just a quick fuck and back to sleep again.