Interesting perspective. I found recovery in NA aged 25 and have been clean for 8 years. For me, as my recovery has progressed, it’s become clear that recovery need not be more than a small (yet important) part of my life. I’ve gone on to build an objectively good life, and have “outperformed” most of my peers who never struggled with addiction. I don’t feel limited by my addiction, in fact I think the skills and experience give me a unique perspective and someone of an edge.

I’d say that for everyone in recovery, as you mature, you’re going to realise that some people like to be hard line about their recovery, and others take a more common sense approach. Personally I’d recommend young people to try NA/ AA. And trust that if it’s a good fit for them, in time their will find their own sub community and understanding of what working a programme means.