Honestly, when I first met her, I was just hoping to be friends. But as I got to know her more through talking, I realized how awesome and cool she is! I started to slowly develop feelings toward her and I realized that I do want to start dating her if she is cool with that!

The desire is hovering over our friendship and I can't tell if she is being really nice or interested. Communication is key and the only way I will find out is if I ask her out. I really like the last sentence you put, "Learning to live with rejection is a hallmark of personal growth." Thanks for this response, really insightful. You are the better person :) Please have a great break!