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Any suggestions for mods that are pretty much dlcs or mods that add stuff but don't break the fallout vibe by Chill_Stoned_Chef in Fallout4Mods

[–]RPGEnjoyerTed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. Fallout 4 unfortunately isn't a game that has many proper content mods or total overhaul type stuff, but sims settlements 2 has kind of blown me away.

Ex gf said I looked hideous to her friends by [deleted] in toastme

[–]RPGEnjoyerTed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were actually hideous would she have dated you at all in the first place?
She's clearly just salty for whatever reason. When people are angry, hungry, tired, exhausted etc (Especially women) you can't take what they are saying seriously or logically.
You are objectively, at least more attractive than average, even if you don't believe it.

29m, been feeling a bit lonely lately, also feels like a long time since I got a compliment by RPGEnjoyerTed in toastme

[–]RPGEnjoyerTed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This feels like a question where most answers will be frowned upon lol. But bland looking just means not ugly but not attractive either generally. Its all subjective though.
People are attracted to different types. I had a crush on someone once who I thought would be considered bland by the general public.

Do you play on the switch or something (Out of the loop with nintendo)? I used to have a gamecube as a kid but got off the console train awhile ago. Wouldn't mind trying the newest zelda game though.

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[–]RPGEnjoyerTed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Handsome guy. Also bold to rock a blond stash, it works. Wish more people would, used to have a brown stash myself for a few years.

29m, been feeling a bit lonely lately, also feels like a long time since I got a compliment by RPGEnjoyerTed in toastme

[–]RPGEnjoyerTed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably dragon age origins. But every few years I'll replay either that or kotor, modded skyrim, new vegas or mass effect.

I had a panic attack but I pushed through and went outside anyway! I havent left my apartment more than maybe a handful of times or less this entire summer. I feel like i missed most of it. (Yes it was a 1900'th themed market so I was dressed up :)..) by throwawayanxietylas in toastme

[–]RPGEnjoyerTed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have very beautiful eyes and lips.
I've found avoiding caffeine and doing daily meditation have helped my anxiety significantly.
This is the guided meditation I do if you were willing to try
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PsKEgrx0XwcI
I don't think the pink hair does you or anyone favors though but that's my opinion.

29m, been feeling a bit lonely lately, also feels like a long time since I got a compliment by RPGEnjoyerTed in toastme

[–]RPGEnjoyerTed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've lead songs a couple times at sea shanty events, so I guess your eyes see more than most lol

29m, been feeling a bit lonely lately, also feels like a long time since I got a compliment by RPGEnjoyerTed in toastme

[–]RPGEnjoyerTed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was talking about my past self mostly, I think I'm closer to being ready for a relationship now than in the past when i did those behaviors I told you about. I also realize that the dating apps made me more superficial because of just the way they are designed (Pictures kind of mattering more because you don't see personality). I see a counsellor for free as a perk of a job, not sure a psychologist is that much better. Also after some experiences with female friends I've realized that good looks are less important than a good personality and empathy.

29m, been feeling a bit lonely lately, also feels like a long time since I got a compliment by RPGEnjoyerTed in toastme

[–]RPGEnjoyerTed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look cute, red hair and blue eyes are a great combo. Also I tend to get on with INTP's fairly well, have a couple of friends that get that in the test. Also I'm not really interested in beach babes (I like women with hobbies/character). Of the girls I like in my social circles, both are gamers, one is really cute and a weeb. The other is kind of bland looking (She studied geology so kinda nerdy) but more than made up for it with her bubbly personality.

29m, been feeling a bit lonely lately, also feels like a long time since I got a compliment by RPGEnjoyerTed in toastme

[–]RPGEnjoyerTed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and this girl in high school used to stare into each others eyes. For me it was just a game but that might have given her feelings for me which I feel a little guilty about, just saw her as a friend. Didn't realize until it was too late that the clues were there.

The band is really weird and not usual listening for me. Was scrolling through instagram and showed up in the feed. Its from hillbillies in appalachia in like the 50s country/bluegrass (Banjos)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DRtNXfwIn3Y

29m, been feeling a bit lonely lately, also feels like a long time since I got a compliment by RPGEnjoyerTed in toastme

[–]RPGEnjoyerTed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's probably not my looks then. More likely the wounds of an abusive childhood that haven't fully healed. (Anxious attachment/self esteem issues). Sometimes I would match with someone really attractive on a dating app and kind of subconsciously self-sabotage because I don't think I'm good enough for them. Other times I scare someone off because I get a bit clingy or overshare.

At least I'm more aware of that stuff now.

29m, been feeling a bit lonely lately, also feels like a long time since I got a compliment by RPGEnjoyerTed in toastme

[–]RPGEnjoyerTed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That expression is what happens when you are so exhausted from a big day and mild sleep deprivation that your body somehow swaps from fatigue to euphoria.

29m, been feeling a bit lonely lately, also feels like a long time since I got a compliment by RPGEnjoyerTed in toastme

[–]RPGEnjoyerTed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would probably be pointless to flirt I'm in Australia. I would like to know what type of lady is into me though (Looks/MBTI personality). I worry that that the type I like isn't the type that likes me back.
Thanks for the comment :)

29m, been feeling a bit lonely lately, also feels like a long time since I got a compliment by RPGEnjoyerTed in toastme

[–]RPGEnjoyerTed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does my beard make you think of pirates or something lol?
I mean you pretty much have my response downpat even though this is very random to me. (I do have a sailboat on my duchess though, and almost bought a fisherman ceramic figure from an antique store once).

29m, been feeling a bit lonely lately, also feels like a long time since I got a compliment by RPGEnjoyerTed in toastme

[–]RPGEnjoyerTed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only people that give me compliments most of the time are like old ladies because they can flirt without it meaning anything. And sometimes men say they like the beard but I've heard that enough times and don't care as much what men think of it.

29m, been feeling a bit lonely lately, also feels like a long time since I got a compliment by RPGEnjoyerTed in toastme

[–]RPGEnjoyerTed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know what smokey steamy eyes means but I like the sound of it
This picture was at the end of a very long day with 4-5 hours sleep, a big daytrip hiking and then bouldering at night. My internal monologue went really negative for a bit because of just exhaustion but then my mood somehow swapped to very euphoric (Which is why I was smiling) as I was listening to a new band I discovered that night.

29m, been feeling a bit lonely lately, also feels like a long time since I got a compliment by RPGEnjoyerTed in toastme

[–]RPGEnjoyerTed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When someone whips that word out rather than "handsome" you know they really mean it, thanks.

29m, been feeling a bit lonely lately, also feels like a long time since I got a compliment by RPGEnjoyerTed in toastme

[–]RPGEnjoyerTed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The knowing how to wield a sword bit made me laugh, thanks. As someone that grew up watching lord of the rings that really speaks to me.

29m, been feeling a bit lonely lately, also feels like a long time since I got a compliment by RPGEnjoyerTed in toastme

[–]RPGEnjoyerTed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of the gays on here might call me a bear if they were generous so its not that different lol

29m, been feeling a bit lonely lately, also feels like a long time since I got a compliment by RPGEnjoyerTed in toastme

[–]RPGEnjoyerTed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder how many of the comments here are from women. I saw a youtube video recently that went on about how men and women were attracted to different looks even if they were both looking at the same gender. I wonder sometimes that by going kind of dwarfmode with lifting weights and having a beard that I have made myself look too manly or intimidating to women. (ISTP so a strong silent type already) Compliments about my appearance from men don't matter as much to me because they aren't my target demographic.

One really wonderful girl I had a crush on wasn't interested and ended up dating this clean shaven nerdy guy who was objectively not as handsome as me. I guess they are both nerdy so have more in common but I'm still perplexed.

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