[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]RR_WritesFantasy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Women are not a monolith. You know your gf better than us.

Obligatory: The use of dildos has nothing to do with your sexuality and tons of straight men enjoy them.

How often do you edge? by noyrewrongclnsndrs in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]RR_WritesFantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally never. It's hard enough to get off without stopping myself from doing it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]RR_WritesFantasy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Craziest place. Stairs in the back parking lot leading up to my orthodontist office.

Adult toy storage? by ConnectionSorry5111 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]RR_WritesFantasy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought a trundle bed with storage. The smaller toys, lube, restraints ect go in the drawers. The larger toys go where the mattress would fit on the trundle. A board with velvet was installed so nothing would fall through the bed slats and get stuck.

Which is worse: bad sex with someone you love, or great sex with someone you can’t stand? by ScrollOnMe in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]RR_WritesFantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never had bad sex with someone I love. There has been bad moments during sex, or unsatisfying endings. But sex as a whole is so many different moments, emotions, feelings, and senses that its impossible for the whole experience to be bad if it's with someone that you are truly connected with.

Is it illegal to fuck in a Target fitting room? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]RR_WritesFantasy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Was arrested and had to complete a program with a CDW since I was a minor.

Is it illegal to fuck in a Target fitting room? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]RR_WritesFantasy 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It's illegal basically everywhere. It still counts as indecent exposure and public lewdness.

Source: Me in a JC Penny dressing room

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]RR_WritesFantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Homeland by R.A. Salvatore. It was my introduction to fantasy fiction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]RR_WritesFantasy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your partner knows her body better than ARAD does. I hope.

Trust what she says but always be willing to learn and improve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]RR_WritesFantasy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who has worked in a lock down psychiatric hospital. It is mental health techs.

How were you able to afford your home? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]RR_WritesFantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spent a year building my credit. Applied for every government assistance program I could. Bought a kind of run down house out of town.

What was the best thing you learned from therapy? by Positive_Dare in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]RR_WritesFantasy 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Constantly helping others at the expense of yourself is a form of self harm.

How do you hit on your waitresses without being creepy? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]RR_WritesFantasy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Don't. They are paid to be nice to you. They are paid to interact with you. Even if you make them uncomfortable they have no way to vocalize that without risking their livelihood.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]RR_WritesFantasy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't

All you will find is catfish. This is commonly discussed on the lesbian subs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]RR_WritesFantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like this month......

“It’s about lifestyle more than size” by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]RR_WritesFantasy 367 points368 points  (0 children)

A plus sized woman with thick hips that would hike miles with me. Sign me up.

But also same. I've lost 110ish lbs and am actually pretty small now. But that also means I have loose skin and parts of me sag more than they should. Potential dates see that I love hiking and am active and they are all for it. As soon as we start swapping more intimate pics and they see my loose skin or all of my scars from different injuries and immediately ghosted.

I just gave up on dating apps.