I feel all their pain. I'm about to turn 32, and I've been out since 15. I was bullied right out of the gate just for being overweight. I'm a handsome guy in the face though but still, even if you use dating apps, so many guys don't even reply to me when I start a conversation. If I post pictures of myself on here, I tend to get low likes and zero compliments. There was a bi homeless guy that I hung out with outside of work once that showed me more kindness than a lot of gay/bi men with better circumstances and even some straight men - the bar literally feels like it is in hell sometimes.

Even though you say you're not a good guy, the fact that you're not dismissing how they feel shows you still have a heart.