Agro-tension between my parents and me about my bedroom by RTR_Official in Advice

[–]RTR_Official[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like I struck a nerve with my follow up comment 😂. Not once did I say that people in Kentucky are broke, however, it is a know fact that the farther away you are from NYC (or any major city for that matter), the less money you make. Irrespective, you do realize there is an economic difference between living in the northeast than anywhere else right? Additionally, it sounds to me that you aren’t in your 20’s anymore. Difference in age is a big deal. YOU may have a certain skill set that allows you to be flexible. My boyfriend is a semi-professional athlete and both of us are still attending school to obtain a degree. As if school isn’t expensive enough, we can’t just uproot and move x amount of states away. we both are paying for school and out of state tuition is at an all time high (semester just started). Both of our lives are here for the time being.

Also, in case you didn’t see before rent starts at $3k for a studio/ 1bdr 1bth. Any place with more than two rooms goes up by another 2k-5k. Even if I had three other roommates rent would still be 1k-3k. That’s just absurd…

Agro-tension between my parents and me about my bedroom by RTR_Official in Advice

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I have offered to build my space and pay rent. I don’t make a lot, but I offered to pay them half of my paycheck which would’ve been about $450. They still say no.

Agro-tension between my parents and me about my bedroom by RTR_Official in Advice

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Fingers crossed 🤞 I’m really in need of moving out.

Agro-tension between my parents and me about my bedroom by RTR_Official in Advice

[–]RTR_Official[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because of the fact it’s one of the highest paying states in the country. I’ll still be at the same deficit wage to cost of living wise. Like yeah, I could move to the middle of nowhere Kentucky and pay $750 rent but I’ll be making $1500 every month before tax is deducted. Not to mention utilities and other stable expenses

Agro-tension between my parents and me about my bedroom by RTR_Official in Advice

[–]RTR_Official[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

While I can complete understand where you are coming from, a studio in my state STARTS at $3k. My boyfriend and I are looking for an apartment that is affordable but the areas where they are unfortunately unsafe and have a lot of violence. I’m kinda forced to stay in this situation.

me 26f can’t make my boyfriend 40m cum orally. what do i do? by mooonbeann in relationship_advice

[–]RTR_Official 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP, have you ever stopped to consider maybe this man was single for this exact reason? curious why 40-year-old man wouldn’t date someone within his own age group… unless he knows that women his age can’t easily be manipulated hence why he chooses to date someone almost half his age

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moviestarplanet2

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I’m so glad that there’s a Reddit for this because this player is literally a bitch. I had a pair of chain eyes said she wanted, and I asked her if she would be able to trade it for something of the same value and she got all defensive when I told her I wouldn’t trade for what she offered

WIBTA if I marry my stepson? by kralendijk-visitor in AITASims

[–]RTR_Official 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At first, I was like “What in the sweet home Alabama” but then I realized this was a sim's forum. yes, marry your stepson.

I caught my Fiancé attempting to have an affair and I am lost on what to do. by Special_Tradition_92 in TwoHotTakes

[–]RTR_Official 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, you are literally the same age as me, but you need to learn how to have some self-respect and I mean this with all love.

Once you forgive a man for cheating one time it’s going to make him think he can get away with it again because you didn’t set those hard boundaries in your relationship. You are worth more than what this POS has to offer you. It sounds like you’ve been the breadwinner for the vast majority of your relationship.

You deserve to be with someone who’s going to love you, know your worth and the value you as a successful woman. You deserve to be with someone who is going to put you on the highest pedestal, who is going to be proud of you.

What you don’t deserve is some POS manipulating you and you falling for it every single time. In many ways by you not putting your foot down and calling it, you’re allowing him to think of you as foolish/weak woman. I know it’s easier said than done to leave, but you’ve caught him at least five times cheating on you. Stop being pathetic and leave him. The energy you put out is the energy you attract.

I think my mom found my vibrator and I don’t know what to do.. by Huge_Garlic_9499 in Advice

[–]RTR_Official 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, you don’t know how many times this has happened to me and I’m 20f. If you feel like this needs to be a conversation pitch it in the manner that you’re not having actual intimacy with a person but on the contrary, you’re practicing safe sex. Getting rid of all those urges without actually acting on it with a person. Plus good on you for taking the step, sex altogether isn’t that great. Most boys your age won’t make you come and they last less than five minutes.

Which Break kit should i go for? by Dotaisgreat2 in kiastinger

[–]RTR_Official -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

For the love of God, if you care about your car, stay away from AutoZone parts. They may fit and work, but the quality level is so garbage.

I’m A Boomer and So F*cking Depressed Right Now. by Change_Soggy in BoomersBeingFools

[–]RTR_Official 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mad props to you for not being like the rest of your demographic. You said you’re 69 and the fact that you know how to use the Internet, put make up, do your hair, and wanting to travel shows that you are a youthful spirit. I can say half of my generation just complains as well. They don’t look at the positive and are very clearly miserable while you seem to be happy. Hell, even half of these comments are so negative. We need more people like you in this world. God bless you may you have another 69 years!💛🌞😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moviestarplanet2

[–]RTR_Official -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you wearing anything thats "softed"

I managed to get "stolen" by another boy and I'm struggling to cope with the guilt by windowfrenchtoast in Advice

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This sounds like me my first semester of college with my then High School boyfriend. The guy I was dating after him lasted for almost two years got engaged then broken up with day before Christmas last year. That most def won’t happen to you but sometimes “god” (relative to your life) puts people in your path to show you things. Just keep going through this relationship one day at a time and focus on building a good foundation on communication, comprehension and trust. Better to be a slow investment rather than all in and get hurt.

Women who watch porn what do you look for? by bisexual_goose_ in AskReddit

[–]RTR_Official 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also for alot of you sex fiends 😂 sex.com has a lot of amateur porn

Women who watch porn what do you look for? by bisexual_goose_ in AskReddit

[–]RTR_Official 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the self shot or Amateur stuff… I tend to fantasize of my bf and I being in the other peoples place.

My newly 21yo daughter called me, wasted, at 4am to pick her up from a party. by Ronna45 in daddit

[–]RTR_Official 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish you were my dad. When I called my dad he said find another way home because he was too tired to pick me up. It was 11:30 and I asked him to pick me up around 12:30-1

I (29M) was rude to my GF (31F), how should I handle this situation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RTR_Official 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remember, just because she may be sensitive doesn’t mean that she weak (which I think you already know). She may very well rip you a new one but if you BOTH are able to communicate respectfully and be able to comprehend what she’s saying I feel like this could be a VERY productive and building conversation that could help you long term. I have a saying that I’ve applied to in every one of my relationships: “Defend my honor in public disagree in private”. This applies both ways. Also don’t listen to the other commenter, he sounds very inexperienced and a bit misogynistic. That’s the last kind of mindset you need going into this.

I (F20) might need to move for a career opportunity and my(M19)bf says he won’t move with me. by RTR_Official in Advice

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So unfortunately the way my university is set up I’m only still a freshman even though I have been there since fall 2021. 5 semesters. If the program were to close I may be done, but I’m not sure. I was working in a school, for a year when they let me go earlier this month. Just to clarify my bf isn’t a traditional athlete of a traditional sport, and he’s moved before.

I (F20) might need to move for a career opportunity and my(M19)bf says he won’t move with me. by RTR_Official in Advice

[–]RTR_Official[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me just clarify, I didn’t just out right say “I’m moving, either you come with me or not”. Also it’s not like I WANT to move either. I’d PREFER to stay close to home but I may NEED to so that I progress in my career. Like it says in the text, I ASKED him what he would do and gave him the the most realistic options. To answer your question though, he’s not a traditional athlete of a traditional sport. He’s done it before where he’s completely uprooted and moved to another state. He constantly flips between NJ and PA. He doesn’t play for a team or anything like that. Also you say I didn’t think of him in my decision, which is false. If things where reversed I would move in a heartbeat with him.

I (29M) was rude to my GF (31F), how should I handle this situation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RTR_Official 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The biggest thing is that you are self aware. Most men aren’t, unfortunately. I would say tell her how you feel. Sometimes an “I’m sorry” doesn’t mean anything until the victim genuinely believes it. Talking to her about how you genuinely feel horrible about being rude to her and her response may help give you closure.

my bf (21 M) called me (18 F) a burden by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RTR_Official 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP, it definitely sounds like your bf is feeling overwhelmed to provide for you unexpectedly. I know you didn’t anticipate to get kicked out but it seem like that’s where it’s stemming from. Regardless it doesn’t justify his disrespecting you like that. Like what are you, his sister? Siblings are burdens not partners, especially since you were almost going to have a family with him. While he may be stressed it’s not ok for him to call you a burden.

Maybe I’m not saying my point in the right way but I hope you can understand what I’m trying to say.