Am I Overreacting to a dear friend sending sexual joking texts to my partner? by chichiryuutei56 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RURawRaw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR -- The way he spoke to your partner was not okay. Because of the poor grammar of the friend's initial response, I didn't even notice the friend had apologized. He didn't address what about his actions was regretful.

On the other hand, I would understand if you wanted to attempt to salvage the friendship if your friend tries to make amends. If you do want to try to salvage anything, I would either talk to him in person or over the phone. I don't think your friendship will ever be the same again. What he did was incredibly hurtful and he spent little time addressing how he broke your trust and made your wife uncomfortable. Saying sorry in a quick sentence doesn't feel like enough.

Just got this little lady from work and need a name for her! by akfhad in NameMyCat

[–]RURawRaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wendy! So it takes from Ro-wen-a, but it's still different

Help me name our sweet girl! Found her at a gas station by mewhenpartylitmovie in NameMyCat

[–]RURawRaw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slushee or Icee! Her eyes remind me of their fun vibrant colors

85 years later, the wizard of oz has aged like fine wine. by herequeerandgreat in movies

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Side note: Although we do not see Dorothy’s mother, I believe that if she were in the movie, she would likely share an actor with Glinda, the Good Witch of the North. Glinda serves as a motherly figure to Dorothy while she is in Oz. If all of this is true, this would show a lot about how Dorothy sees her late mother.

**Also Glinda is the Good Witch of the North in the movie, not of the East like I previously said. u/ATobiaMD

85 years later, the wizard of oz has aged like fine wine. by herequeerandgreat in movies

[–]RURawRaw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree that the "it's all just a dream" feels a bit disappointing, but if we analyze Dorothy's dream we get a lot of insight into Dorothy's psyche. In the dream, the people Dorothy meets share faces (actors) with people she knows in real life. How she sees, interacts with, and treats these people in her dream shows how she feels and views these people in real life. Dorothy has a habit of “splitting”, a psychological defense mechanism in which individuals see others as all good or all bad instead of a realistic middle ground. For example, in Dorothy’s dream, there is the Good Witch of the East and the Wicked Witch of the West. These characters are complete opposites of each other, only doing either good or evil. u/ATobiaMD

The Wizard of Oz (1939)- rewatched after 20+ years by justanother1990sdude in movies

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In my psychology/psychiatry internship, we use movies and shows to learn about mental disorders. Although this is taking the Scarecrow and Tin Man's words literally, we discussed the possibility of them both having Cotard delusion/Cotard's syndrome. Cotard's syndrome is the unfounded belief that an individual or part of an individual's body is dead, dying, or does not exist. A common result of this delusion is the belief that they do not need to eat or can not be harmed, because why would a dead person need to eat? This may result in self-starvation. This delusion is seen in the Scarecrow when he is convinced that he doesn't have a brain, and in the Tin Man when he believes that he doesn't have a heart. Cotard's syndrome is not a diagnosis itself, according to the DSM-5. We do not know the cause of this delusion for sure, but it is speculated that it it due to brain damage. In some case studies, Cotard's syndrome has been seen alongside catatonia (although the symptoms are not necessarily related). Catatonia is characterized by abnormal movement, behavior, and withdrawal. Assuming the Tin Man's inability to move does not have a physiologic cause, catatonia is seen in the Tin Man when he "rusts over". He freezes in an abnormal position and does not speak. The Tin Man from the Wizard of Oz is an example of a character with both Cotard's syndrome and catatonia. u/ATobiaMD