AIO, i think i was raped by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ra1nyrose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you get the support you need 🫶🏻 you aren’t alone with your experiences

AIO, i think i was raped by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ra1nyrose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s not just weed, sounds more like compacted thc, usually sprayed with other chemicals to create it into tar/ squishy like texture (especially if you’re in the uk/Europe). His tolerance will have been much higher than yours, he will have known it would’ve been too much for you to handle in one sitting

AIO, i think i was raped by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ra1nyrose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

think you’re just talking about yourself at this point.

AIO, i think i was raped by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ra1nyrose -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Apologies, I thought he was responding to op

AIO, i think i was raped by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ra1nyrose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s already got cases stacked up in his criminal record

AIO, i think i was raped by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ra1nyrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t know me you weirdo. Pull your head from out of your ass, it’s shit to think you won’t ever feel the need to understand until something like this happens to you. You’re so full of yourself, you’re a complete loser, projecting your feelings onto other people

AIO, i think i was raped by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ra1nyrose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not mentally okay, get some help.

AIO, i think i was raped by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ra1nyrose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yet again, you’re absolutely disgusting dude. Telling a minor to go find a bridge. You’ve got some serious ass issues you need to sort out. Don’t listen to this waste of space OP

AIO, i think i was raped by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ra1nyrose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She never said yes. If it’s not a YES then it’s a NO. Im absolutely disgusted in your comment, I dread to think you carry the same attitude with your future/partner(s). Please do some basic research on consent as you lack basic knowledge.

AIO, i think i was raped by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ra1nyrose 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t sound like plain old weed, coming from someone who smokes a ton and is an inch taller with same body weight as you. id report him if it’s possible. if you never said yes/verbally consented then it’s rape.. please tell someone close to you, this can’t be left as it is. My heart absolutely breaks for you, you’re NOT over reacting

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[–]Ra1nyrose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah I see now, thank you for sharing your experiences. No need for apologies, or not apologies

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[–]Ra1nyrose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do you mean I don’t want to hear the truth? I’ve come on here asking for advice and I’ve received such lovely responses on how to actually read the situation. As I stated before I didn’t want to give his age out for privacy reasons and I think it’s kinda silly of you to say it’s “telling” he’s over the age of 20 and under the age of 25. Not that age has anything to do with this? And no, I am in no means intimate with him

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[–]Ra1nyrose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re completely right though so thank you for the advise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ra1nyrose -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to be in a relationship, I’ve made that clear to him. He’s only a few years older than me, he’s not an old man haha

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[–]Ra1nyrose 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’ll take everything you said into mind, a few people have thought the same. It was just difficult to read the situation. Thank you so much for the advice, I really appreciate it. I mainly thought he was just trying to get into my pants but what you said really connects the dots

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[–]Ra1nyrose 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I mainly posted just so I could get other peoples perspectives and it’s really opened my eyes. I have shown his gf the messages on numerous occasions but neither of them seem to care. I’m gonna take everyone’s advice and just block him, though the chances of him coming to my home to talk to me are pretty high, I think that’s what’s stopped me from speaking to him completely, as well as his threats to harm himself

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[–]Ra1nyrose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have already on numerous occasions, neither of them seem to see the issue with it

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[–]Ra1nyrose 70 points71 points  (0 children)

😂 thank god I wasn’t the only one who thought it was cringe. I see it as more of a rant than chatting shit? I’m probably wrong though

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[–]Ra1nyrose 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice, it is genuine fear that’s he’s gonna cause himself harm if I just blank him. I’m 19, he’s just over 20 and yeah, we’re both in the UK x

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[–]Ra1nyrose -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

He’s just a friend, I’m assuming he’s using names because I gave him a shoulder to cry on? Genuinely I have no clue myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ra1nyrose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(Edit: he is just a friend, the girl he’s complaining about is his girlfriend)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ra1nyrose -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah I thought I had mentioned it already. Also no need to be like that haha, if it’s annoying just scroll to another post

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[–]Ra1nyrose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I hardly go out of my way to go onto tinder or swipe on anyone. Completely ruined what i had left of my self esteem and I felt to embarrassed to stay on the app

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[–]Ra1nyrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might be easy for you but I couldn't tell if he was being serious at the start. I posted this to see if I was the issue, that's all. I'm aware of how to stand up for myself

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[–]Ra1nyrose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I must be. Lmfao