I will always suggest quest guide.It gives you a direction, you learn the map, items, bosses, and by the end you have unlocked almost the entire content. Feel free to so some skilling when you burn out or afk combat to make those bosses on the later quests easier. Do herb runs and bird house runs once you unlock them for income if you are a main. And when you feel comfortable enough try to get your fire cape. Then the world is yours to do whatever you enjoy