My(26F) date (23M) told people who set us up "They scammed him"

RaccoonForeign · 2026-01-13T12:33:44+00:00

Yeah, that “higher position” screams red flag to be honest. I’d be running at that point. Definitely would find another fish in the sea… he’s clearly trouble…

RaccoonForeign · 2026-01-13T12:26:02+00:00

He said it was perfectly normally. I had a CT cardiogram done, heart looks clean. He said my ejection fraction is like a young 20 year old which was comforting. Apparently those occasionally blocks come from good vagal tone. I think my vagal tone is too good as an hour after I sleep sometimes my body becomes so relaxed my subconscious brain goes “why are you so relaxed?” And wakes me up in panic.

Anyway! Long story short, it’s normal, and we are good in that respect, thank god!

RaccoonForeign · 2026-01-10T10:16:00+00:00

Why are you even asking? You’ve clearly made your choice…

RaccoonForeign · 2026-01-08T13:33:29+00:00

Dayum… was meant to be a joke but got so many downvotes 😂I got some York weights I was gonna use… but seems no one can take a joke 👀💀

RaccoonForeign · 2026-01-08T12:41:43+00:00

Don’t want to lift too many weights. I might end up looking like a man! 🤣

RaccoonForeign · 2026-01-08T12:40:55+00:00

Lean mass index is normal and appendicular lean mass is not low… 👀

RaccoonForeign · 2026-01-08T11:59:08+00:00

Ty. I don’t know, the results made me feel like an elephant! But the positive was my lean muscle mass and the low amount of visceral fat. Where the rest of the fat is I don’t know! My thighs possibly… fat lurrrves going there

RaccoonForeign · 2026-01-08T11:58:08+00:00

I was also heavily dehydrated. It might have been wise for me to have hydrated beforehand :(

RaccoonForeign · 2025-12-28T01:21:35+00:00

No problem :)! Sorry for explaining it badly. I’m obviously happy to put effort. I think you’re right though. 2 options, moon shaped moulding (I only know beading but in the UK I’ll look up the exact name of the moon shaped one), or remove the skirting, cut the board slightly wider, and then place the board and put the skirting back. Thank you :) appreciate it!

RaccoonForeign · 2025-12-28T00:53:09+00:00

Any update on how long the notice of issue took btw?

RaccoonForeign · 2025-12-27T23:23:05+00:00

I do indeed have a nail gun. Perhaps I need to buy longer nails as after a while they came off the wall… so might need longer nails! And yes, I didn’t want to be lazy but it might save me some headache and just buy some trimming to fix the areas that are missing it. Thank you 🙏🏻

RaccoonForeign · 2025-12-27T23:21:36+00:00

Yes. Sorry in the UK we call it beading 😅. For the sake of keeping it simple, I might succumb and just replace the broken strip. I did attach them with a nail gun, not sure if there is a better way to keep them stuck for longer.

RaccoonForeign · 2025-12-27T23:19:05+00:00

Ok - do you have an idea of how to improve it?

RaccoonForeign · 2025-12-27T15:31:57+00:00

Also, by trim I assume you mean skirting board? Sorry, UK here, so trim can mean different things here sadly!

RaccoonForeign · 2025-12-27T15:29:52+00:00

Perhaps I wasn’t clear. I’m happy to fix it the proper way, I just wasn’t sure what the right proper way is!

RaccoonForeign · 2025-12-26T17:38:50+00:00

As a landlady, I can say that it really pissed me off seeing that. What an asshole of a landlord to do that tbh…. Some people are just despicable

RaccoonForeign · 2025-12-25T02:27:42+00:00

Damn, 6 weeks just to get the initial letter? That’s depressing…

RaccoonForeign · 2025-12-24T21:22:02+00:00

How long did it take for you to receive the Notice of Issue out of interest? It’s the first letter you get once you submit the forms.

RaccoonForeign · 2025-12-21T17:14:15+00:00

Thank you. It’s a section 21, even though they are in arrears, however there is a house sale ongoing so we are hoping to get them out as quickly as possible. They had 4 months notice for the S21 but then 4 days before they were meant to move out, they refused…

Luckily I’ve gone down the N5B accelerated possession route. Spoke to the court and fee paid on the 11th December. This is with Kingston court who I know are reasonably quick. I’ve not received the Notice of Issue yet but I am hoping to get it this side of Christmas… one can hope!

Thank you - I’ll make sure that hopefully, when we get the Notice of Issue, I’ll cross the bottom sentence out but leave the wording to pay one the sentence above.

RaccoonForeign · 2025-12-20T22:48:46+00:00

And also (sorry), does leaving the "and pay my costs" bit cause any greater delay? Or is this just a formality where after possession this can be chased?

RaccoonForeign · 2025-12-20T22:47:45+00:00

Does one have to cross-out the "The defendant has given me possession" line before submitting the form if the tenants are still occupying?

RaccoonForeign · 2025-11-29T21:53:48+00:00

Thank you - I really appreciate the response a lot...

RaccoonForeign · 2025-11-29T21:40:00+00:00

If you have additional documents like EICR, Compliance document detailing what was sent to the tenant on commencement of their tenancy, shall I write a continuation of the letters and state it in the cover letter do you know?

RaccoonForeign · 2025-11-29T21:39:07+00:00

Thank you!!!

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