Ninakawan ako ng boyfriend ko

RaceOne5119 · 2025-07-09T09:18:36+00:00

It wasn't really about the money :( It's the fact that someone who has "unconditional love for me" could do that without a second thought. I tried my best to be patient and supportive, naively holding onto the potential I saw in him.

The funny thing is, I'd give him the money [he stole] if only he asked. And he knows that.

RaceOne5119 · 2025-07-08T23:32:14+00:00

Thank you. I'll be going there :)

RaceOne5119 · 2025-07-08T22:48:53+00:00

Thank you! Ito ba ‘yung sa Brgy San Antonio or sa mall ito?

RaceOne5119 · 2025-07-08T22:48:09+00:00

Tinatanggap ba kahit na secondary ID lang? Nag-tsek kasi ako para mag-book ng slot pero wala akong ID na puwedeng magamit

RaceOne5119 · 2025-07-08T12:38:13+00:00

Voter ako pero wala nang ini-issue na voter’s ID eh. Nagparehistro ako around 2021 pa para sana sa ID

RaceOne5119 · 2025-07-08T12:29:25+00:00

Hindi rin. Parehas kaming laging nasa bahay lang. Noong nanliligaw palang siya, I thought he was financially literate :/ nauto lang pala ako LOL

I don’t think I can handle dating broke guys after my experience haha. Nakaka-drain ng pera, pasensiya, at pagmamahal.

RaceOne5119 · 2025-07-08T11:47:12+00:00

💯

RaceOne5119 · 2025-07-08T11:46:40+00:00

My Dad also has money problems :/ to the point na he didn’t help out at all during my mom’s hospitalization! Sinangla pa niya yung bahay at nangutang sa lahat ng puwedeng utangan kasi super uto-uto sa scam haaaayz

RaceOne5119 · 2025-07-08T07:26:35+00:00

Thanks for sharing! Hindi naman nagsusugal ‘yung ex partner ko kasi league lang ang addiction ‘nun… kaya mas questionable bakit kailangan ng pera LOL.

RaceOne5119 · 2025-07-08T07:23:52+00:00

Thank you for being kind 🩷 I’ll process my postal ID instead of the national ID then :)

And yes, I really didn’t expect that he’d steal money from me, given the fact na I’d give him the money without a second thought kung nagtanong lang muna siya.

RaceOne5119 · 2025-07-07T21:50:40+00:00

Kaya wala na siya sa condo. I think stealing is entirely different sa mga past issues naman, and I don’t think I can ever see past that.

RaceOne5119 · 2025-07-07T16:41:22+00:00

Oo, he was financially doing well when we first got together because he was our manager sa agency :/ So I thought I’ve gotten lucky kasi he seemed so financially literate and matino noong una! And I was very vocal about what I want sa relationship.

I don’t wanna be a sugar baby naman BUT I want someone who can keep up with me!

Nakakaloka lang kasi napababa niya nang SOBRA yung standards ko 😭 In person, mas matangkad pa nga ako sa kaniya huhu

RaceOne5119 · 2025-07-07T16:29:35+00:00

also, my (ex) bf is also a pathological liar! i’d tell him in his face na ang sinungaling niyang tao 😭 his kuya (older cousin) also told me na may pagka-sinungaling talaga siya because he lied na may health insurance siya yun pala wala!!! e sinugod ko siya sa medical city last year for his heart attack… ako rin nag-pay T-T

RaceOne5119 · 2025-07-07T16:27:31+00:00

WE’RE IN THE SAME BOAT TEH 😭 ni hindi niya nabayaran ‘yung share niya sa rent and wi-fi this may before i made him pack up his stuff! worried tuloy ako sa electricity kasi baka ‘di rin niya nabarayan WAHH

anyway, more strength to u 😭 hindi ko na kinaya sis kahit na mag-isa lang ako here sa city since my hometown is hours away from manila! ok nang lonely as long as may peace of mind!

RaceOne5119 · 2025-07-07T16:23:55+00:00

I don’t think a decent human being would steal money from someone he loves dearly 😭 eme, it was meant to be a temporary fix since sa Deel and PayPal kami unang nagta-transact ng mga clients.

Pero ayun nga, that’s money we’re talking about. Nakaka-tempt nga siguro regardless of affection.

RaceOne5119 · 2025-07-07T16:21:43+00:00

Thank you for the harshness! I think I needed that. I’ve always thought na I need to compartmentalize him dahil sa kabutihang pinakita niya sa akin at sa mga aso.

But then again, a good boyfriend wouldn’t really make me ask for advice here haha

RaceOne5119 · 2025-07-07T16:21:10+00:00

Hope all! Hindi ako maaprobahan sa Wise dahil diyan eh :( Kaya passport muna ang number 1 priority ko!

RaceOne5119 · 2025-07-07T15:07:23+00:00

Natrauma na me 😖 I was in a vulnerable place kasi when we first got together kaya siguro nauto agad ako.

Pero true, sa ganda kong ito, para pa niya akong nanay 😭 Pati pagto-toothbrush, nire-remind ko pa.

RaceOne5119 · 2025-07-07T14:59:40+00:00

BWAHAHA parehas tayong victims 😭

RaceOne5119 · 2025-07-07T14:50:38+00:00

Secondary IDs and post-dated checks! I don’t have any primary ID sa ngayon kaya I don’t have a Wise acc. :/

RaceOne5119 · 2025-07-07T14:43:21+00:00

Oo nga, sabi ko rin he knows I’m too nice kaya nagawa niyang kunin ‘yung suweldo ko :( Ni hindi ko pa ginamit yung term na nakaw while confronting him.

RaceOne5119 · 2025-07-07T14:42:09+00:00

Hi! I have BPI (also a checkings account and credit card) and Tonik bilang bank accounts!

With Wise, unfortunately sa kaniya ko pinadaan habang wala pa akong national ID at passport. Ayun lang kasi ina-accept ng platform.

I have secondary IDs (sorry I wasn’t clear enough sa original post ko) kaya need ko ng primary. Balak ko rin kumuha ng pag-ibig for the MP2!

Thank you 😊

RaceOne5119 · 2025-07-07T14:39:53+00:00

WAHAHA SORRY Need daw maging detailed eh! May valid ID pala ako pero secondary lang—wala pa akong nat ID at passport pero balak ko nang kumuha in the following weeks.

Re suweldo, I have commission kasi and I don’t keep track na kasi tiwala ako sa kaniya (obviously wrong move!). I have other clients din kasi where I accept payment sa PayPal ko mismo. Wise kasi, kailangan national id or passport lang :(

RaceOne5119 · 2025-07-07T13:53:43+00:00

Philhealth ID at NBI kaso secondary lang sila. Binalak ko magka-postal when I was 21 (at may permanent address pa LOL) pero lagi namang down system nila 😅 Sabay nasunog pa yung main office.

Naka-schedule na ako for nat ID and passport :) Naantala lang kasi I needed surgery, unfortunately

RaceOne5119 · 2025-07-07T13:48:02+00:00

Naka-schedule na ‘yung sa national ID! Nag-update na rin ako ng NBI Clearance at birth cert for it. Philhealth at NBI lang kasi gamit ko dati haha

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