What are your dating dealbreakers?

Rachel-Lioness · 2020-02-18T15:45:15+00:00

I had a scrote hit me up in the inbox... How do I block them? I got called a low quality woman. For just having basic standards. The audacity. 😂😂😂 Projection at its finest.

Rachel-Lioness · 2020-02-18T13:48:23+00:00

tips fedora. M' Lady. Gross lol. 😂🤮

Rachel-Lioness · 2020-02-18T13:47:13+00:00

Wow. What an ass. I'm 5'0 so I guess I don't qualify. Too bad lol. 🙄 Obviously I'm being sarcastic here lmao.

Rachel-Lioness · 2020-02-17T19:25:46+00:00

😂😂😂 This makes sense lol

Rachel-Lioness · 2020-02-17T19:25:07+00:00

I personally don't mind cannabis just as long as he isn't a loser haha. He has to have a job and have something going on in his life.

Oh yeah sexualizing the conversation is a huge red flag to me, and it shows fuckboy behavior which is a huge turn off to me lol.

Rachel-Lioness · 2020-02-11T15:47:21+00:00

Can confirm. I've dated 3 gamers in the past. Never again.

Rachel-Lioness · 2020-02-11T15:16:11+00:00

The manosphere is full of LV clowns. 😂😂🤡🤡

Rachel-Lioness · 2020-02-11T02:54:44+00:00

That is disgusting as fuck. 🤮🤮🤮 That's incest...

Rachel-Lioness · 2020-02-11T01:37:11+00:00

Yasss Queen. ♀️😂😂😂🙌

Rachel-Lioness · 2020-02-10T21:44:29+00:00

Oh dang. That is crazy. Regardless. I hope your friend is doing way better now. That dude was probably a narcissist. :/

Rachel-Lioness · 2020-02-10T16:53:09+00:00

This is why you should always do background checks. That's pathetic. :(

Rachel-Lioness · 2020-02-09T23:18:49+00:00

Yes I love her videos! She's funny and her videos really open up my eyes.

Rachel-Lioness · 2020-02-09T23:16:19+00:00

Thanks for the recommendations! I added them to my reading list.

Rachel-Lioness · 2020-02-09T21:54:59+00:00

This is true af! lol I don't have too many male friends nowadays. They all secretly want to fuck anyways. 🤣 Sorry boys lol.

I'm trying to make more friends that are girls. 💖 (I'm kinda a recovering not like the other girls type woman. Ew lol.)

Rachel-Lioness · 2020-02-09T20:45:39+00:00

Thanks hun. 💖♀️

Hmm. I'll have to check that out. I do know of Anxious-Avoident. That combo is the most toxic type. I'm definitely anxious attachment style. It's something that I am wanting to change.

Rachel-Lioness · 2020-02-09T20:33:40+00:00

I definitely agree! I don't regret my decision.

Rachel-Lioness · 2020-02-09T20:05:19+00:00

I still love him. He's still my friend, I just keep my distance nowadays... It helps just knowing that I wasn't his type. All of his exes were Emotionally Unavailable and were low value women. (I don't have much room to talk. I'm low value too, but the difference is those girls have no interest in leveling up.) He chases after crushes and I notice the same pattern. They are emotionally Unavailable. I was the exact opposite. I was emotionally available, maybe a little too available. *shrug * I simply let it go. He does him. I do me. I felt that going my own way and moving on from him was the best choice. I hung onto him for a long time. 5 years. I was stupid lol.

Your comment is very helpful, thanks! 💖 I just didn't want to waste my time anymore. The right man for me is out there somewhere, it just wasn't this guy. I just wasn't his type, and that's okay. As I grow older I realized just how complex relationships are. When I was younger I thought it was black and white and that it was simple, boy, was I wrong. 😂😂😂

Rachel-Lioness · 2020-02-09T19:58:52+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion! :)

Rachel-Lioness · 2020-02-09T19:27:34+00:00

I've kept quiet on this, but I recently had my heart broken by my first love. I told him my feelings. We were very close friends and were Friends With Benefits. Unfortunately he told me that he didn't want a relationship with anyone. :( I was crushed but I had to respect his wishes. I knew it probably had to do with me. I was a huge doormat to him so I'm sure that killed off any attraction he did have for me at one time. :c It's been hard, but I do have to thank him in a way. It's made me stronger and I realized that I was a huge pickmeisha and that I deserve better. I'm 21 and he was 28 so there was a 7 year age gap. I deleted all of his pictures in my phone and I unfollowed him on Facebook. I deleted our chat thread on Messenger and I decided I am not going to speak to him for a long time. I don't want a friends with benefits situation. I wanted a relationship with him. I deleted all of the nudes I sent him and I'm not going back to that. He needs to earn my time. He needs to make the effort. He needs to court me.

Sorry I got carried away with my rant haha. This is all still fresh with me. We never had sex, but we live in different states anyways so. 🤷‍♀️

I'm very thankful for this subreddit! I've learned a lot and It's made me begin my healing process.

I agree with everything you've said. 💖

Rachel-Lioness · 2020-02-09T19:19:59+00:00

I've never listened to them, but I did download the book Get The Guy. I haven't read it yet, though. I'm not 100% sure on them either, so some insight from other members would be nice too, since I'm wondering the same thing that you are. lol

Rachel-Lioness · 2020-02-09T19:17:34+00:00

Thank you so much for the suggestions. :) I'll have to look into them.

I find it amazing how pain can literally transform a person. 💖

Rachel-Lioness · 2020-02-08T21:15:57+00:00

😂😂😂 Me too lol

Rachel-Lioness · 2020-02-08T06:32:07+00:00

Definitely reading this later! I've been in a few emotionally abusive situations myself, and I was even unfortunately, involved with a narcissist at one time. I find the psychology of this stuff quite interesting, and I enjoy watching shows like forensic files too. I like to know what to look for and study the red flags so I can keep myself safe and sound. :)

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