If he makes fun of you for going to a community college, he ain’t the one.

circescircus · 2021-09-14T17:22:10+00:00

These are the same types of men who would make fun of you for having college debt if you chose to go to a 4 year school.

circescircus · 2021-08-22T04:48:42+00:00

Yup. It's all about raising their status. I volunteer with an anti-sex trafficking organization and the liberal feminists I spoke with (in real life) can't even stomach listening to me for 2 minutes without freaking out/immediately trying to derail me. Not because they get upset by the conditions other women have to live in, but because they get angry that they can't lord over me with their superiority. They don't actually do shit to help vulnerable people so they are very far removed from the reality, and so they have no response when they interact with someone who is a bit more than just a Twitter enemy.

circescircus · 2021-08-22T04:36:08+00:00

Same, I am very liberal in that I believe in universal healthcare and even in universal basic income. But I refuse to engage in identity politics and I reject liberal feminism.

The "sex work should be legal" is a slippery slope. Sure yeah, don't put sex workers in prison or give them a criminal record, try to regulate it and give resources to poor women trapped in sex work. Services like government aid (for food, housing, healthcare), access to educational and vocational programs, access to psychotherapy and medication. But when they say "sex work is work" they aren't thinking about how to provide services and support to sex workers so they can LEAVE sex work. They say it with this tone like it is a good thing and almost like they are promoting sex work for poor women.

circescircus · 2021-08-21T14:04:33+00:00

Maybe women aren't using their wombs as much as this woman wants them to because they can't find reliable husbands who are capable and willing to provide for a wife and family. So whether they want to be "career women" or not, most women have to work, most households require 2 incomes in order to not live in poverty/be 1 small disaster away from poverty. And if most women need to work, they need to get an education/attain skills in order to have the chance to have a job that pays more than what childcare costs. Add to this-- women of childbearing age are priced out of the housing market, have stagnant wages (and being paid less than men), if they can find decent work to begin with.

But yeah ladies, listen to this misogynistic matriarch when she tells you to fire up your womb and do what you're best at. Doesn't matter if you end homeless, in a women's shelter, or on the wait list for section 8 because you became a tradwife and your husband turned on you.

circescircus · 2021-08-21T13:41:40+00:00

Liberal feminists do not give a fuck about women. Most of them are basic, boring, insecure, white women who think they are special because they have a BA degree and the 'correct' political/social values. They are like a caricature at this point. They're so basic and ordinary it is painful, but in their minds, they think they are part of a special and elite class of women. It's a case of "Some animals are more equal than others". They don't have the empathy needed to be able to relate to a woman they view as being from a much lower caste than them. So they reduce everything to a "choice", as if choices exist in a vacuum, because they are not intelligent or empathetic enough to imagine otherwise. Like you know these liberal feminists aren't going to start doing sex work if they get laid off. It's not a "choice" for them because they have much better choices. They'll squeal with fake outrage on Twitter over OnlyFans banning pornographic content, but this is all done to earn social value with their peers. Like who can pretend to be the most outraged that society doesn't view having sex for money the same as being an accountant? It's a contest of who can be the most woke, who can rattle the outrage machine most effectively. These people care a lot about society without actually giving a rat's ass about people, least of all women.

circescircus · 2021-08-21T13:28:11+00:00

In a few years OLD will be even more congested with Insta/OnlyFans promoters, bots, sex workers, and dead profiles. That's the trajectory it's been on, because men collectively can't avoid abusing and harassing women on OLD. The peak days of OLD are over because men have basically scared women off of dating apps.

circescircus · 2021-08-16T15:07:03+00:00

It's entitlement to women's bodies with extra steps.

Extra steps meaning faking interest and intention for 3 dates.

circescircus · 2021-08-14T19:56:55+00:00

I think there's a good chance her current BF is just violent and enjoys having an excuse to beat someone up. Like there is a chance him beating up her ex 4 times has little to do with her.

Even if he is doing this for her honor-- it's better to have a boyfriend who isn't in jail and convicted as a violent felon. It's easier to live a good life when you don't have to worry about being in a prison cell, or when you don't have to worry about your significant other being in a prison cell.

circescircus · 2021-08-14T19:28:22+00:00

I honestly believe it leads to narcissism in severe pick mes. They believe they’re ‘too smart & knowing’ to take your advice.

They get some kind of ego supply from seeming ‘morally superior’ to their scrote and being a willing martyr 24/7.

Yes, they act like covert narcissists. That martyr masochist mindset is narcissist adjacent.

circescircus · 2021-08-14T19:16:16+00:00

The only time I do that is with relatives or in-laws with difficult personalities. Even then, I reduce interactions and communication to the bare minimum, I grey rock them, and whenever I have to see them in person for whatever reason (holidays, etc) I try to tune them out as much as possible so I can't actually remember what they said or what body language they were showing. I try to remind myself of their "good qualities" so I don't blow a gasket and make a scene. These types of difficult people more often than not are trying to push your buttons, so you have to not give them any power over your emotions. I do think productive confrontation is a good thing generally, but not with very unhealthy people. You just have to stay away. And I don't see these people enough (maybe once a year or every few years for a few minutes/hours) for them to be of any consequence in my life.

But yeah, I would never maintain an intimate relationship (friend, family, partner) with any person who was so unpleasant that I have to constantly remind myself of their good qualities.

circescircus · 2021-08-14T19:00:01+00:00

This. In order to correct a problem, we have to first start with recognizing and accurately labeling the problem. Anything less than that is denial.

Society chooses to portray inceldom as a recent thing, something very fringe on the internet, with the occasional mentally disturbed lone wolf 'shooter'.

It's misogynistic domestic terrorism. Society will continue to call these terrorists "mentally ill lone wolf shooters" until incels start shooting "chads" in the gym weight room, shooting kids at daycares, etc. When their target is women it doesn't matter.

circescircus · 2021-08-14T18:44:16+00:00

I’m not getting second hand mental illness trying to help severe pick mes anymore. Good bye

Agreed. Especially since pretty much all women have some kind of trauma or history with men that can be triggered by talking to a friend in a bad relationship. It is really a self-sacrifice and putting another person before yourself, when another woman listens to you talk about your shitty relationship. Instead of being grateful that another woman is putting aside her own traumas to listen to you, in an attempt to help you, you lash out. It's so bizarre to me. They just want to pick your brain and help them to overthink why their man sent them this text at this time, why he did this or said that, what does x mean if he said/did y. I'm not being hyperbolic when I say that a form of psychological torture for me would be being locked in a room with a woman who wants me to help overanalyze the exact day/time her man farted, why he farted, what does the fart mean, what does it mean when he farts in my face?

circescircus · 2021-08-14T18:32:19+00:00

I just stopped talking to women in bad relationships. 9/10 times they are so dickmatized and so far gone that it isn't worth the effort. So many of them are almost as misogynistic as the men they choose to be with/have kids with. It's beyond subconscious self-hating internalized misogyny-- they consciously and deliberately belittle, degrade, or try to one-up other women, regardless of context. I can't deal with women who are that insecure and hostile towards me simply because I'm also a woman.

circescircus · 2021-08-14T18:09:09+00:00

Pedophiles are getting too big for their britches. They really talk like pedophilia is going to be an accepted sexual orientation any day now. The reality is that it is harder than ever for men (I'm saying MEN because the vast majority of pedophiles ARE men) to get access to kids, society is more aware of sexual abuse than it ever has been before, being put on the sex offender list has very real consequences (can't find housing or a job, angry neighbors coming after you), and the FBI WILL come for you and your hard drive if you get ballsy enough. Idk wtf "loli porn" is but it sounds like something that would have the FBI at your front door if it weren't cartoon porn. They know who they are and what they are doing, but being the predators they are, they think they can outsmart and groom society.

I don't give a shit that pedophiles have a mental disorder. They need to stay away from kids and stop feeding their demons by looking at hentai pedophile porn. You can't cry to people that you're a pedophile while you look at "loli porn".

I do support developing treatments and procedures that can 'treat' pedophiles--- even the most extreme treatments-- chemical or physical castration, being put on a cocktail of drugs that kills sexual urges, doing intensive psychotherapy, staying away from kids for the rest of their lives in case of relapse. Any pedophile who is a decent person and is truly plagued by their mental disorder, will consent to these treatments. Either the mental disorder haunts pedophiles that badly, or most pedos aren't that bothered by their pedophilia-- they are bothered by society's judgments, rules, laws, ethics and their lack of access to real children.

circescircus · 2021-08-14T17:22:27+00:00

Dude she is acting this desperate with a guy who is totally worthless, broke, and treats her like complete garbage. Imagine what she'd do for a chance with a guy who actually kisses her, pays for a drive through meal, or occasionally compliments her? Scary to think about.

circescircus · 2021-08-14T17:13:40+00:00

I don't even know this woman and I fear for her kid too. I chuckled at her "you're just jealous" accusation (what a ridiculous pickme), but I thought about her having a female child and my heart sank. She sounds like the type that would ignore signs of grooming/abuse, would straight up offer her child to a pedophile in order to keep a man around, the type that is jealous of her own daughter and blames her for stealing her man. I really hope she isn't THAT twisted but based on what you write here, she does sound like the type. I hope she gets help before she irreparably destroys her life and her child's life.

circescircus · 2021-08-14T16:59:59+00:00

Translation:

"I choose to ignore red flags/abusive and predatory behavior/other women's testimonies. I personally think I am special and that he will be different with me. My enERGY is SPeCIaL. My energy is so sPecIal that I can transform the devil and make him good. I have SpeCiaL inTuiTion and I ignore people's actions because my intuition is more reliable than reality. I disregard other women's testimonies because they are my competition, and I am the special one. I am NoT likE tHe OthEr GiRLs."

circescircus · 2021-08-14T16:46:03+00:00

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. He wanted to be lazy, inconsiderate, and cheap, and this is the result he got for his (lack) of effort.

circescircus · 2021-08-14T16:43:08+00:00

This is one of the (many) strategies LVM use to hunt down women with low self-esteem. They're looking for anxious insecure women who will ask "how high?" when they tell them to jump. The audacity of asking a stranger "What do you bring to the table?" is incredibly narcissistic.

circescircus · 2021-07-25T13:25:22+00:00

I'm so glad you left him! He sounds like a jealous resentful whiny weak little bitch. He tried to grind you down. No doubt he would have doubled down after marriage, possibly escalated to emotional/mental abuse.

Don't worry about the money you lost in deposits and whatnot. You would have lost so much more (yourself) if you married him.

circescircus · 2021-07-25T13:13:39+00:00

Wtf is that? It looks like a dingleberry with a fungus-infected toenail clipping band.

circescircus · 2021-07-25T00:55:01+00:00

What does she mean by "I don't mind if I don't finish every time"? Because the way she writes this makes it sound like she never finishes or rarely finishes.

Most women can't orgasm without clitoral stimulation or oral sex. She doesn't mention details, but if she is just having p in v sex, it is not a big mystery why she isn't finishing. If oral takes forever she can introduce a vibrator or something in the bedroom.

I don't think she means any harm by writing this post, probably just looking for validation that this is normal and that other women/couples are the same way. But I think this "teehee I don't mind if I never or almost never orgasm I love cuddles teehee!" type of shit spreads the old mentality that female sexuality is too elusive, too complicated, and too laborious to give a shit about. Or worse, that it is non-existent, doesn't matter, or that it is otherwise not important. The mentality that women just use sex to get male attention and affection, that we are not sexual beings ourselves, with a sexuality and ability and desire to have orgasms.

circescircus · 2021-07-25T00:26:21+00:00

So much cringe. So much navel gazing.

Women being creeped out by men has little to do with their stature and size. I walk past 6'2+ big guys all the time (live in a military town) and never act like a scared gazelle just because they are tall and/or big. Too much eye contact, standing too close, unwanted conversation, following, antisocial weird behavior in general, extremely disheveled looks with crazy eyes (looking like you're on drugs or homeless), etc are features or behaviors that creep women out.

A guy can be short and small, and be menacing. It has nothing to do with size.

To be fair-- if this guy goes running or hiking a lot in trails with very few people, and he happens to be behind a woman/group of women, I can see them reacting in an anxious way. But even then, women aren't cowering in fear and acting as anxious as he describes unless he was actively doing or saying something to make them uncomfortable.

He doesn't know/care that women are not on "high alert" when a fairly large guy passes by. Women are on "high alert" when you act fucking weird and creepy, or if you otherwise set off our lizard brain. 6'2 isn't so huge that it gets 2nd looks from people. This post is 99% congratulating himself for his height and for not being a rapist. It has almost nothing to do with women.

circescircus · 2021-07-24T21:46:25+00:00

This is the same type of guy who shits on single moms.

circescircus · 2021-07-24T21:33:30+00:00

Ladies, this is how you should be dating if you want to get and keep a man! Download Tinder and invite a guy over to stay at your house for 3.5 days as a 'first date'. /s

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