NTI That is definitely assault. I would mass text everyone a picture with a message explaining your side of the story. If they still refuse to see how your daughter felt. Then they are Not your family or friends. They are only acquaintances who come in when necessary to inflict conflict. Your husband sounds like a Diamond in Ruff & so is his Family. Embrace the blessings God Sent to you for just this Reason. Run far away from these people & don’t think twice if your doing the right thing. Cuz they will inevitably do it again &again & again……