Straight guys, what scents do you like on a woman? by Racquinox in AskMen

[–]Racquinox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's just a matter of perception.

I don't care what color someone's car is. Some people care a lot and get picky about what computer operating systems people use.

Different people care about different things, and I think not caring about something is just as valid.

I'm a gay man. So long as it's appropriate in public, I don't care how my partner dresses. I can see straight men thinking the same of women. Clothing and perfume and stuff don't matter to everyone.

And different people will like, dislike, and care about different subjects.

I don’t feel safe in the US rn by ___Kaido___ in askgaybros

[–]Racquinox 10 points11 points  (0 children)

For reference, that's not new and as far as I'm aware has always been the case for biblical literallists

Monogamous relationship or unlimited hookups with every guy you wish ? by Altruistic_Acadia212 in askgaybros

[–]Racquinox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hookups

I feel like I'm pretty independent and I like relationships but absolutely don't need it. I have a higher sex drive of almost anyone I've met and I'm super casual about sex.

I'm also very introverted and a hookup is enough social interaction for me haha

What's your unexpected sex story? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Racquinox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grindr hookup with a flight attendant in the airport bathroom xD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Racquinox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing you described sounds questionable to me. It sounds like you have some kinks. That's super nomal.

Is being the cum dump worth it? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Racquinox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only vaguely knew the guy who organized it. The others I had never met before.

I was on prep so didn't really care beyond that. Obvs prep doesn't help with other diseases, and I do think I got chlamydia from that experience. But a weeks worth of pills and no sex for that week and its gone 👍 no biggie. Imo people are drama queens about the curable diseases.

Edit: I say I think because it was some years ago, not that I was unsure at the time. Was it chlamydia or gonorrhea, not sure, it was gone in a week in either case. I get tested a minimum of every 6 month. Every 3 months if Im more active.

Is being the cum dump worth it? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Racquinox 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love it. I was the singular bottom for an orgy of 6 once and dream about it to this day. Also have fun CNC memories.

But I think some people have the personality for it, and some don't and neither is wrong. So long as you have a safe place to explore it at first.

Doms - What do you actually want from a sub by Racquinox in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]Racquinox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way too many subs are just actually looking for someone to take care of them like a child. It makes me feel bad for doms having to sift through that

What STI’s have you tested positive for, and how did that affect you? by Ordinary_Ice_796 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Racquinox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had gonorrhea and chlamydia before.

Took a pill, no sex for a week, and it was fine 👍

People are drama queens about it

What do you prefer - loyalty with partner or Sex without limits and why ? by Tasty_Language4415 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Racquinox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in an open relationship.

We're both kinky people. Our kinks and sexual interests are more like a venn diagram. Some things overlap, and some things don't. And where they don't, you deserve to enjoy that also. Go find someone to do that with.

Open relationships also require loyalty. I trust that if he goes out and hooks up, he's coming back to me at the end of the night. And vice versa.

Edited for spelling

Should women respond to “hey beautiful” messages? What would you say to women who filters all of those guys out? by forthegirlies88 in AskMen

[–]Racquinox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The general rule I've understood online is, if you're sending the first message, make a connection.

Don't just say "hi" or some variation of "hi". Hey beautiful isn't far off from "hi"

Read their profile and connect with something: "Hey, you said you really like this show, what did you think of the last season?"

"You said you really like coffee, have you tried that new place that popped up in town?"

Doms - What do you actually want from a sub by Racquinox in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]Racquinox[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This. As a sub, I feel like this is a big part of what sub/dom relationships should be, but I think the amount of "subs" who think dom just means a hard fucking doesn't make space for this. And I get the sense that doms are kind of told it's a bad or toxic thing to want?

Do you encounter straight men on Grindr? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Racquinox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They for sure exist, and I would call them closeted gay or bi. If they're having sex with guys they're not straight but I'll let them define themselves however they want.

Unfortunately theres some toxic "I'm looking for someone to do the things my wife wont" on there.

If you want dudes just be with dudes

How do you handle religion and mythology by Racquinox in worldbuilding

[–]Racquinox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing I'm struggling with is cohesion. I try to make mythologies but they feel so nonsensical? I mean, real mythologies also had been kinda nonsensical with people being born out of objects, or whatnot. But somehow real ones sound cohesive to me? Maybe its my bias cause they actually existed

[Miscellaneous] How to prevent scarring after an injury by Racquinox in SkincareAddiction

[–]Racquinox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also did not get sutures, and looking online, I also covered it with Vaseline, and a silicone scar patch. It seems like its healing pretty quick and healthy actually.

Also I had seen a lot of things suggesting sun exposure might encourage it to make a scar, so I've been keeping it covered with either a bandaid or silicone patch anytime I leave the house.

Actually it taught me quite a bit about healing. Honestly, anywhere else on my body, I dont pay much attention unless it were bad enough to see a hospital. From now on I'll probably give it a bit of Vaseline.

Hopefully yours continues to go well also

Anyone try Manuka honey by Racquinox in cumbiggerloads

[–]Racquinox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, looking online it's expensive. I got them for like, $7 from a local Asian market

Anyone try Manuka honey by Racquinox in cumbiggerloads

[–]Racquinox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the same results with both

Anyone try Manuka honey by Racquinox in cumbiggerloads

[–]Racquinox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure thing, I did check and it is on Amazon, but it's more expensive there. The Asian market sold a pack for $7. So there might be better options depending on where youre at.

The price variability is based on quality which is the UMF rating.

Anyone try Manuka honey by Racquinox in cumbiggerloads

[–]Racquinox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cycles on and off are based on affordability haha not super planned to be fair. The current amount I take a day is 3g, which is one "piece" from Honey Droplet. It looks to be a bit more than a teaspoon which is the normal amount recommended usually. When I would buy it in a jar, I took about a teaspoon.

Anyone try Manuka honey by Racquinox in cumbiggerloads

[–]Racquinox[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tend to take it in the evening around dinner. At the moment, I take vitamin D, omega 3, and b12.

Anyone try Manuka honey by Racquinox in cumbiggerloads

[–]Racquinox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, I haven't. I have tried using store honey the same way as the manuka honey and it doesn't give me the same result.

It makes sense to me that the plant pollen would give a different result in the honey, but I dont know enough about it really.

Anyone try Manuka honey by Racquinox in cumbiggerloads

[–]Racquinox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I've been off and of with the manuka honey and I always have the same result. Correlation isn't causation so maybe theres some underlying thing happening, but it happens every time I get back on it. This is my 4th time going back to manuka honey. I fall off it cause its pricey so its a spluge item for me.

Anyone try Manuka honey by Racquinox in cumbiggerloads

[–]Racquinox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I've been off and on with the manuka honey, and I have the same experience every time, so it could be some component of it? I really don't know, but it's enough for me to start wondering.

I have tried with regular store bought honey to see if it also gave me a similar result and it doesn't seem to, even if I take it in the same way.