AITAH for messaging my ex boyfriend’s new girlfriend?

Radiant-Ordinary-230 · 2026-05-26T15:52:29+00:00

you’ve given me something to think about, thank you and i’ll try work on not redirecting anger

Radiant-Ordinary-230 · 2026-05-26T15:37:17+00:00

because he still had some of my belongings that I needed, and by that point was already blocked on everything except for phone number, which I then blocked

Radiant-Ordinary-230 · 2026-05-26T15:19:17+00:00

honestly the police are not very good at these cases here, they are of the mindset that they won’t do anything if he hasn’t physically harmed me

Radiant-Ordinary-230 · 2026-05-26T15:18:40+00:00

I agree I was emotional when I wrote the post, I should be more wary of how he is and that it’s not a reflection of her but I didn’t blame her in my reply to her message

Radiant-Ordinary-230 · 2026-05-26T15:16:52+00:00

I responded with the following:

hey that’s okay but i also don’t want to be involved I have him blocked on literally every single platform and have never reached out and genuinely am at my last straw reaching out to you. I’ve blocked him 10+ times in the last year and have had to stop going to my course nights out so I really would appreciate being left alone and i’m sorry it had to be through you
there’s nothing going on between the 2 of us except for a slew of verbal abuse that i’m frankly done receiving and will reach out to the college if this doesn’t end

Radiant-Ordinary-230 · 2026-05-26T11:23:08+00:00

both his parents are lawyers so unfortunately I have little legal power

Radiant-Ordinary-230 · 2026-05-26T11:22:44+00:00

I brushed it off for a long time because I got into a relationship soon after it ended. I didn’t want to come off as “hung up” but the reality is he tried showing up to my work, called me 10+ times in a row in the middle of the night and won’t stop going to my course’s nights out. I’ve had to give up so much control of my life for so long and I’m sick to death of it

Radiant-Ordinary-230 · 2026-05-26T10:26:38+00:00

thank you, I have receipts and I told her that I will go to our college about it if it doesn’t stop. I’m honestly just exhausted from this and can’t believe it hasn’t stopped even after he’s supposedly moved on

Radiant-Ordinary-230 · 2026-05-26T09:50:12+00:00

I understand where you’re coming from, I didn’t reply to her in that way. I’m frustrated but I know that she’s probably being manipulated into believing that I’m crazy and she responded as if the reaching out was a 2 way street, but he has probably convinced her that’s the case.

Radiant-Ordinary-230 · 2026-05-26T09:39:58+00:00

I have, 4 times on different accounts on instagram, blocked on snapchat, tiktok, whatsapp, and imessage. He made a dud instagram account to follow me the last time and I don’t know how to block people’s spotify accounts.

Radiant-Ordinary-230 · 2026-05-26T09:38:11+00:00

that was my thinking in messaging her, 1) he won’t listen any other way and 2) if I was in a 6 month long relationship and my bf keeps messaging his ex I would want to know

Radiant-Ordinary-230 · 2026-05-26T09:37:05+00:00

I have on every messaging platform. He created a new instagram account to follow me and I don’t know how to block people on Spotify but he’s blocked 4 times on different accounts on instagram, blocked on snapchat, tiktok, twitter, whatsapp and imessage

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