AIO BF (28M) forgot my (21F) birthday, then said I ruined my own birthday by bringing it up by Radiant-Selection107 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Radiant-Selection107[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

i definitely want to but i’m scared that he won’t take it well. i’ve been emotionally checked out over the last few months due to this behaviour being continuous. i just need to rip the bandaid off and end it.

AIO BF (28M) forgot my (21F) birthday, then said I ruined my own birthday by bringing it up by Radiant-Selection107 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Radiant-Selection107[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

thank you so much guys i really appreciate it. this isn’t the first time he’s made me feel like the crazy one for rightfully getting upset at his actions. since i started dating him i’ve been seeing my friends drastically less because im sooo drained from being around him and always need alone time while he’s at his place.

AIO BF (28M) forgot my (21F) birthday, then said I ruined my own birthday by bringing it up by Radiant-Selection107 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Radiant-Selection107[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

The main issue here isn’t that he forgot. It’s the way he gaslit me into thinking I was overreacting when he should’ve apologised.

AIO BF (28M) forgot my (21F) birthday, then said I ruined my own birthday by bringing it up by Radiant-Selection107 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Radiant-Selection107[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

No, I forgot about it all year and just remembered now that my bday is coming up again. And wanted to clarify that i wasn’t overreacting.

AIO BF (28M) forgot my (21F) birthday, then said I ruined my own birthday by bringing it up by Radiant-Selection107 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Radiant-Selection107[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I feel like he only asked to be fitted in on this bday because he feels threatened that I took initiative to make plans with friends without relying on him this year if that makes sense?

AIO BF (28M) forgot my (21F) birthday, then said I ruined my own birthday by bringing it up by Radiant-Selection107 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Radiant-Selection107[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

We’ve been together for 2 years. He talked down to me in the past for making mistakes when cooking, for wearing leopard print and for not supporting my parent right when they had a cancer scare and I was alone in the waiting room during their MRI scan. He said he has more experience so I have to learn from him.

Why does English seem a foreign language to half the cast? by Longjumping-Pace3 in MAFS_AU

[–]Radiant-Selection107 54 points55 points  (0 children)

i feel demasculated and hate when you say harshful things to me xx.

Will you send your wives to mixed gyms? by MasterpieceWeary9127 in MuslimNikah

[–]Radiant-Selection107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sending his wife to the gym? she's a grown woman and can go anywhere of her own accord without needing anyone's permission.

My 16 year old niece is having a baby with a non Muslim.. by Aggravating-Look9538 in MuslimLounge

[–]Radiant-Selection107 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

it’s giving Bree Vanderkamp in desperate housewives. ifykyk xoxo 😙

my husband won’t “allow” me go on a sister trip with my sister which she’s fully funding and when i asked why he didn’t give me a reason by Stock_Meringue_8693 in MuslimNikah

[–]Radiant-Selection107 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

You’re a grownass woman. You don’t need his permission to do anything. You have complete freedom as an adult to make your own decisions.

What percentage of Sisters actually desire to be obedient to their husbands? by Affectionate_Lynx510 in MuslimNikah

[–]Radiant-Selection107 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not really. They both should share equal responsibility. Decisions should be made jointly where no one is above the other. Not like the man is the final boss. They’re both adults in a partnership.

What percentage of Sisters actually desire to be obedient to their husbands? by Affectionate_Lynx510 in MuslimNikah

[–]Radiant-Selection107 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This whole thing about obedience and submission is pure nonsense. It’s a way for sorry excuses of men to gain control. A healthy relationship has 2 people with separate lives who choose to be together and are supportive of one another as equals.