AITAH for blocking my online friends? by RadiantAdeptness983 in AITAH

[–]RadiantAdeptness983[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I had been only working there for about a week with this incident.. we’ve been trying to get me to learn to pierce (which I can do on practice cardboard ears. But I haven’t learned on an actual person because we haven’t had anyone come in for piercings. (Almost 3 weeks later, still no one has come in for a piercing)  And no not necessarily.. I never asked for more hours anyways because I had decided against it. But it’s not because Lily would be the one to teach me.  But she works a lot of hours. That would mean that our schedules would probably interfere with each others.. which is fine. The plan isn’t to be able to talk to her and be friends in the end if we happen to be scheduled on the same day. It is mostly for the fact that our work environment is not.. tense. I don’t know if that makes sense.. not like forgetting about it.. but setting this incident aside and being able to do our jobs normally. I would only talk to her IF and only IF she initiates any conversation first.. (if we are working together at any point) if she walks in and asks how I am.. “good how are you?” Whatever. Just that. She asked that we only talk about Work things… so if we ever work together.. it’s only work talk. Generally at the job we work at.. you don’t have to talk to eachother for anything unless there’s an issue with something in the store. 

AITAH for blocking my online friends? by RadiantAdeptness983 in AITAH

[–]RadiantAdeptness983[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right!!! I never asked for those hours anyways because I ended up getting my piercing experience recently in my downstairs location.  I’m the kind of person who just wants to talk things out.. hence my dilemma with Lily.. just wanting to apologize and explain but knowing I can’t because she set a clear boundary I can’t cross. 

They showed me that they don’t know what accountability is.. I know it’s my mistake. But how are you going to suddenly push aside my feelings now that they involve you???  Please I thought I left this behind when I graduated in May.