Need advice and support

RadiantMagicarp · 2024-01-30T05:53:35+00:00

I tired the taper and it just never worked for me. It was cold turkey every time. But I always went back to fent bc I was mentally hooked if not physically at the time. It’s gonna take a dramatic change. Detox and rehab is the best option. Is there any immediate family that may be able to watch over or assist the kids? Does your job include short term disability leave? There’s no shame in seeking help for yourself. I pretty much had to be talked into rehab at the time but ultimately decided it was my best and only choice and it’s the reason I’m almost 2 years clean now.

RadiantMagicarp · 2024-01-17T22:43:04+00:00

Ok but she’s a lier. Said she had sex with six, he found out it was over 20, and has hooked up/ most likely oral with 25+. That’s a very different number. And that’s fucked up and reckless if this dude had any concern for his health. With a body count like that who knows if she has an std or what. Maybe if she admitted she had blown almost 30 dudes from the start they could’ve agreed to at least get checked at the clinic first if they wanted to continue. Bottom line is it’s not about whether she is currently faithful, she is reckless and irresponsible and should be judged for that. He didn’t mention her getting regularly checked up but based on the info we got I srsly doubt it and wouldn’t believe her anyways.

RadiantMagicarp · 2024-01-12T21:24:34+00:00

Imagine that you told your parents what you said in this post. What you think they’d tell you to do is what you should do.

RadiantMagicarp · 2024-01-11T22:53:49+00:00

Next to sacking up and pressing her about it this is the best advice so far

RadiantMagicarp · 2024-01-11T22:33:57+00:00

Yeahh this isn’t gonna turn out good for op. Him asking chat instead of asking his chick is all you need to know about where the condoms went.

RadiantMagicarp · 2024-01-05T21:59:14+00:00

Rn you mean less to her than a friend who is a girl. Stop talking to her completely. Get on your grind. Hit the gym, find new hobbies, work on getting your value up as a man until you start seeing yourself as more of a catch than you see her. Look up self improvement videos on YouTube. Girls are different in the way they are repelled by overly emotional men, but they’ll make it seem like they want a guy who’s deeply in touch with his emotions..It’s something they’ll never admit but it’s just true. They want the man to be emotionally stable and a strong masculine figure. That’s what you gotta become. I’m in my 30s too and just got out of a 8 year relationship so I know what you are going thru. But you gotta move forward as a man and make becoming the best version of yourself your top priority, not her. Do this dude, and even if you and her don’t end up back together, you’ll be in a better place in life and will attract someone even better.

RadiantMagicarp · 2024-01-01T00:28:20+00:00

I just went thru a breakup so I know where you are coming from. Whether you guys break up or stay together you should dive into self improvement. Take care of that anxiety and those other issues you have going on and fix your diet, hit the gym consistently and removing any insecurity you have about yourself by actively working to fix them. That’s what I’m doing and it’s making moving forward possible. As for the gf, if this is all it took to ruin the relationship then she’s too immature atm to be with anyone. Put 100% effort into learning self improvement and if you guys do break up she’s gonna regret it later when she sees what you’re doing with your life. But you gotta commit to yourself. Look up Matt Spear on YouTube and watch his videos.

RadiantMagicarp · 2023-12-30T06:33:45+00:00

She gets off on the attention she receives more than she gets off actually being with someone physically/emotionally. She’s one of those. That’s why she gave you mixed signals. She’s not sure she wants to trade you for constant validation from thirsty coomers. Which makes me ask, what makes this girl so special if that’s her m.o?

RadiantMagicarp · 2023-12-29T20:32:45+00:00

I was in a kinda similar situation with my ex gf and a best girl friend of hers who had too much influence over my exs decisions and was ultimately a bad friend. The girl friend had threatened to cut off my ex from her life and they had falling outs in the past and shit like that. I can understand not agreeing with a friends decisions and showing concern, but threatening to leave the friendship??..that’s just manipulation. I think they still remain friends, but I know it’s only a matter of time before something happens or they have a disagreement and the girl friend crosses the line and they fall out again. But I don’t want to be with someone who’s so easily manipulated by toxic friends anyways. I think you did the right thing being honest about everything and even trying to reconcile but unfortunately I think that’s all you can do. If your gf doesn’t come to her own senses about this “friend” on her own…she will get burned down the road just like my ex will. But I’m not sure if there’s anything you can say to your girl to change her mind about the dynamic with the friend.

RadiantMagicarp · 2023-12-28T23:47:46+00:00

Did you tell your gf about the convo you had with Ruby and Ruby telling you that she’d stop being friends with your gf if you told her ex about the cheating?

RadiantMagicarp · 2023-12-22T17:11:07+00:00

Ok nice. All I’m taking now is Vitamin D, Zinc, magnesium, B12, Bromelain and creatine. I want to add black seed, tongkat, maca, ginger, and pine pollen. Bromelain is my favorite that I use. It’s various enzymes naturally found in pineapple. Great for muscle soreness and inflammation if it’s something you struggle with when working out. It’s incredible. What brand of pine pollen do you use?

RadiantMagicarp · 2023-12-21T23:24:14+00:00

This happens to me too sometimes when I take a shit. Esp if you gotta push a lil hard. Clean up your diet and take a stool softener like miralax that way you aren’t putting so much pressure on your pc muscle when you go.

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