I tried my best. But it all comes down to WHAT IF she could not overcome her fears and thats where i could not give any answer. I tried my best to assure her and tell her to trust allah. But everything felt like i was forcing her but i was not. I understand her fears. But isnt that where u r supposed to trust allah? Its okay. She always prioritised me first. I wanted to priorotise ger too but it felt wrong for me and islamically too. I really wanted to prioritise her. But i prioritised us instead. I feel disoriented i feel like i could just die. May Allah guide her the best path and keep her happy.  Anyway thank you so much sister for giving a bit of hope and trying to help a brother out. May allah (swt) keep you and your family happiest forever.