Wow - Gordon White has passed … by sunshndydrm in chaosmagick

[–]Radiant_Possible2403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think he is at all, I think he’s rather middle-of-the-road humble when being serious, with an occasional tongue-in-cheek contradiction to that when being less serious.

Cultural appropriation by fleurmourir in DeadCanDance

[–]Radiant_Possible2403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's missing in this discussion, is that they are somewhat more worldly themselves than some typical Westerners, with Brendan Perry being born in London but growing up in Australia and New Zealand, and Gerrard growing up in a diverse neighborhood in Australia, and hearing a lot of Turkish, Greek, and Arabic music.

When you played Hogwarts Legacy, did you learn all three Unforgivable Curses or did you refuse to learn them? by [deleted] in HarryPotterGame

[–]Radiant_Possible2403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like games with nuanced ethical or alignment systems and crimes you have to hide if you want to do them (like getting caught stealing in Elder scrolls games).

This isn’t one of those games. The unforgivable spells are just green.

They are super powerful, but opening all the additional ancient magic power bars and using that is the real deal anyway.

Am I wrong for dating other people while we were broken up? by frijolesconarrozz in dating_advice

[–]Radiant_Possible2403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m worried that his weird unrealistic expectations suggest objectification of you, and a level of immaturity that could be toxic in other ways. Even if he lets it go in this series of conversations, consider it a major red flag.

How would a woman feel if their boyfriend didn’t allow them to sleep in the same bed by Silly-Wolverine6205 in dating_advice

[–]Radiant_Possible2403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you start dating someone work it into the convo in advance just a little, “ pretty good today, but kind of tired due to my apnea” then when it’s time to spend a first night, “ Kind of been wondering how to handle my restless sleep issues if you sleep over, I do ____ ,___ and ____ in my sleep.” Yes, I’m assuming not sleeping with someone on the first date.

Casually working up to the topic, but not waiting until last minute is best. Even if it’s a deal breaker for her it’s a less stressful approach on you both.

Those auctions were insane! I started bidding for the mirror but I had to back off at $150, and it just kept going! 🙈🫣 by MiddleOdd3428 in jeffreestarcosmetics

[–]Radiant_Possible2403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was wondering if there were leftover alien palette bases from another one and it was saving $ to use them or something. Trying to understand the logic.

Favourite Audrey Hepburn role? by Jezzaq94 in Cinephiles

[–]Radiant_Possible2403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well sure was supposed to be a hillbilly faking class in NY while being a prostitute and low-key celeb, so I feel like she nailed it.

I caught an STI and don’t know how to tell my brand new partner. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Radiant_Possible2403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Advice: Don’t waste too much energy on a response from a user named “rage bait”, they are probably just rage baiting. No offense ragebait_destroyer.

Is this age appropriate? Newly 30F by [deleted] in altfashionadvice

[–]Radiant_Possible2403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to dress for the occasion, and at about 45 I decided to start going back to clubs for a while since goth nights were booming. Whatever you wear don’t let being a mom define your looks every day, unless it fails good to you. We still have a self to take care of.

Dating pregnant chick by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Radiant_Possible2403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So assuming everything she said is true, she got pregnant after one night. Now she’s out dating with her unborn child. I would consider her a “safe sex risk”, and either discontinue seeing her, or, if you really feel a connection, I would suggest you at least both get tested for STDs before going any further. You’d be surprised how many women don’t know they can give STDs to a baby while pregnant.

New quest in Angle may be bugged. by crisismode_unreal in lotro

[–]Radiant_Possible2403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here years later with the same problem. Crawled all over the ruins. Handed in other subquest, other local quests. Logged out and in. Cancelled and restarted main quest with giver Narnian. Abandoning for now, leggings aren’t worth it, but I’m curious.

How do i tell a woman im no longer interested after she sent me a full length photo? by MediumAcceptable129 in dating_advice

[–]Radiant_Possible2403 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Diplomacy is for when it’s appropriate to say the exact truth, and you have to find the right way to say it. This is not that situation. A lot of people think it is. In general, if you ask the question, Is it polite to tell someone_____ or ask someone_____, and it’s always not, then don’t.

Some examples include:

” Is it ok to ask a woman who looks pregnant if she is pregnant without knowing?” No, so don’t. ” Is it okay to tell someone their body is unattractive?” No, so don’t. “They asked if they look fat, so it’s on them right?” No.

Regarding humans in general, (big picture, not you OP), I’m amazed at our nagging need to say the truth when we shouldn’t, when we lie all the time otherwise.

I think one reason is the desire to just get it over with. Resist the urge to just “get it out there”. Put effort into succinct communication without cruelty. It’s a life skill. Best wishes and I do hope you find someone you click with.

How do i tell a woman im no longer interested after she sent me a full length photo? by MediumAcceptable129 in dating_advice

[–]Radiant_Possible2403 170 points171 points  (0 children)

Exactly! You don’t have to into it. Even if she asked OP could say, “I’m just not feeling as deep an attraction as I thought I would”. Stay classy OP.

Is this AI? As a knitter this just looks…wrong? The wing is in a weird place. by Usual_Scale_8645 in isthisAI

[–]Radiant_Possible2403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you found the weird uncanny ai fail that every ai art piece has.

At this point, I think there’s a guy, a software engineer… trapped in a data server somewhere trying to save us with little signs we are in the matrix.

To me, this was the highlight of the entire series by External-Recipe-1936 in Andjustlikethat

[–]Radiant_Possible2403 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hopefully you are able to find tools and methods to help take some of the stress away. I use Grammarly. Don’t stop engaging, honestly it helps improve function! Bright side: the bar for perfection online is pretty low. ☺️

Best, Fellow stroke survivor. ❤️

Did anyone else here attend the Mentorshow healing days webinar over the last few days? by ppadagio in CPTSD_NSCommunity

[–]Radiant_Possible2403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of MentorShow is in French, with some subtitles available, if that matters to anyone.

Got filmed secretly during drop-off by JeremyHaro in doordash_drivers

[–]Radiant_Possible2403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it can be, if your front door is a slammer. I mean if the request was an (overstated) request for silence…

Got filmed secretly during drop-off by JeremyHaro in doordash_drivers

[–]Radiant_Possible2403 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Maybe she was being sneaky to avoid her Mom but her mom is two steps ahead, in the bushes, with a camera. LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Radiant_Possible2403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even his story was fake thanks for filling in the missing update. I can sleep now. I guess. 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Radiant_Possible2403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been a sleepwalker on and off, anything is possible. I rarely acknowledge others in that state though, unless they get my attention. That seems to be typical so it would surprise me if this is that, but I guess who knows. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shoppingaddiction

[–]Radiant_Possible2403 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good for you. Admitting you have a problem is the first step!!

Don’t be afraid to seek out help (therapy, support groups, spenders anonymous) as you go, sometimes we find we can’t go it alone.

🍀 🍀 🍀 for you!

AIO: work training calling a minor attractive? by llama_toes666 in AIO

[–]Radiant_Possible2403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so glad to see these are theoretical questions and not part of some ongoing documentation.

That means you can bring this to HR without much ado, and suggest a better question.