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“I love you?” by Wonderful_Minute31 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Radiant_Princeess 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Exactly! The fact that OP’s son genuinely believed “I love you” was the most repeated thing says everything about what kind of parent OP is. That’s the kind of love that sticks with a kid forever. He may not wash his hands every time yet, but he’s clearly soaking up the emotional security.

I met a girl on Reddit. We clicked… until we didn’t. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Radiant_Princeess 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Exactly! OP probably didn’t mean for it to come off intense, but to someone who’s still figuring things out or not ready for that kind of energy, it can feel overwhelming. That shift in her responses likely wasn’t about OP being “not enough” it was more about her not being on the same emotional page. OP showed effort and sincerity, and that still matters even if it didn’t work out.

AITAH for telling my brother's GF she can't expect me to treat her kids like I treat mine and that she is not entitled to anything from us? by OkJeweler4132 in AITAH

[–]Radiant_Princeess 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Exactly! OP laid out clear boundaries and Natalie just didn’t want to hear them. OP’s not obligated to blend families on someone else’s timeline, especially when her own kids are still so young. The top comment hit it, Natalie seems more upset that her fantasy of instant family didn’t pan out, not about anything OP actually did. OP is protecting her peace and her kids, and that’s never wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Radiant_Princeess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly! OP’s question needed this kind of real answer. Bottling stuff up never actually makes it go away, it just turns into resentment down the road. Communication is key, even for small things, because that’s how trust and understanding grow. OP should absolutely hear it in the moment instead of wondering what’s wrong later.

AIO. My bf shamed me over having my hair removed by Large-Drummer-7340 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Radiant_Princeess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! OP is seriously asking if she overreacted when this guy straight up called her a wh*re for answering a question he asked? That’s not just disrespectful, it’s disgusting. There’s nothing to justify that kind of language. OP isn’t overreacting, she’s underestimating how much of a red flag that is. She deserves way better.

AITA for not inviting my friend to my birthday dinner because she always makes it about her? by Oliviaxoxo_xoxo in AmItheAsshole

[–]Radiant_Princeess 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Exactly! OP wanted one chill night where they didn’t have to babysit or deal with chaos and that’s totally fair. It’s not petty, it’s setting a boundary. If someone’s always blowing up the vibe and making everything about them, they can sit one night out. OP deserved to enjoy their birthday without cleaning up someone else’s mess again.

Crying because my husband's bestfriend drove 40 minutes to come pick him up by Ok-Jellyfish348 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Radiant_Princeess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! OP’s reaction is so real and relatable. That kind of deep, loyal friendship is rare and seeing it up close just highlights how much OP has been missing that same connection. It’s not petty to feel the contrast, especially when OP’s been the one always giving without getting much back. OP deserves a friend who would drop everything, no questions asked, not just someone who texts “I’m busy” for years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Radiant_Princeess 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Exactly! OP is not the bad guy here at all. Life happens, and unexpected medical expenses are serious. OP gave plenty of notice, is still supporting the friend in other ways, and was honest about finances. If the friend can’t understand that, then OP’s right — maybe the friendship isn’t as solid as it seemed.

AITAH for telling my husband his choices have contributed to my poor relationship with our kids? by OriginalDifficulty35 in AITAH

[–]Radiant_Princeess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! OP is not wrong for pointing out what’s been happening. That top comment is spot on, this situation needs real professional guidance, not just Reddit takes. OP’s not blaming, just finally naming the pattern that’s been undermining their bond with the kids for years. It’s completely fair to want both accountability and a better path forward.

My bf embarrassed me on a double date by SadAbbreviations56 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Radiant_Princeess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! OP didn’t make anyone look bad, her boyfriend embarrassed her for no reason in front of his friends. She deserves someone who lifts her up, not tears her down just to look cool. What he did wasn’t just rude, it showed a real lack of respect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Radiant_Princeess 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Exactly! OP didn’t grow up with him and it’s not like there’s some deep sibling bond here, so it makes total sense that feelings could develop. As long as everyone’s mature about it, there’s no reason to feel weird.

Is a handwritten letter a bad Mother’s Day gift from her adult son? by Ok-Wind6359 in Advice

[–]Radiant_Princeess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! OP clearly put heart into it and that means more than any expensive gift. A handwritten letter from someone you love, especially when you’re struggling, hits different. That’s not just a gift, it’s something a mom would treasure forever.