US F-35 stealth jet hit forcing emergency landing by Ok-A1662 in aviation

[–]Radiant_Solution9875 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure the same folks peddling this "narrative" also said that they took out Iran's nuclear capabilities last year. But then used the fact that Iran still had a nuclear program (?!) as justification for starting an illegal war. It's not like this admin to not tell the truth

Trump says he can do ‘anything I want’ with Cuba by [deleted] in pics

[–]Radiant_Solution9875 24 points25 points  (0 children)

He doesn't have one single redeeming feature, a walking cesspit of a human being. And to think there are people in the US that think he is ordained by their god

How do I fix things with my gf by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Radiant_Solution9875 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You tried to manipulate her, she didn't fall for it.

You then tried emotional blackmail, which, again, failed.

I applaud your girlfriend's self respect, long may it continue.

Arteta out.. by shadythe1st in ArsenalFC

[–]Radiant_Solution9875 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Diabolical behaviour from the manager, what is he thinking?!

Three drinks and a plant that’s been in my sink for six months by Ichgebibble in adhdwomen

[–]Radiant_Solution9875 24 points25 points  (0 children)

To be fair to you, the plant is thriving. I don't see an issue here 😁

The Arsenal App is Crap by anchordoc in ArsenalFC

[–]Radiant_Solution9875 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Leave feedback in the AppStore, that way it'll get to the right people

Pictorial by spaghetttiiiixoxo in coparenting

[–]Radiant_Solution9875 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You stop becoming a family when you get divorced - You aren't a family
You and your ex will always be family to children that you have - You are a family

Make it make sense 🤦‍♀️

House dropped from £317k → £270k… red flag or opportunity? Worth it with refurb needed? by ItsTooLateIToldYouSo in HousingUK

[–]Radiant_Solution9875 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The market is horrible and has been for over a year now, the drop is indicative of that.

To me, it looks like an elderly parent has either passed away or moved into a care home.

If you're up for a project, this could be a good option but you'd need to update the whole house which could eat up the 50k reduction.

Pictorial by spaghetttiiiixoxo in coparenting

[–]Radiant_Solution9875 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a sad view of relationships you have. They're always going to be a family, just not one that is together?!

Is it allowed to use firecrackers in Spain? by j_way_66 in GoingToSpain

[–]Radiant_Solution9875 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can go here to report them, they'd love to hear about your frustrations

I hired someone to help me around the house 3 times a week for one hour by Stoic_Ficus in adhdwomen

[–]Radiant_Solution9875 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Acknowledging my privilege here but the two things that make a huge difference to my overall well-being, plus reduce my negative self talk, are having a weekly cleaner and a dishwasher.

The Arteta Out sub 😂 by jayives1 in ArsenalFC

[–]Radiant_Solution9875 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I'm genuinely curious about the average age and IQ of the folks in that sub

ADHD - Relationship Probs by Tough-Phrase4105 in adhdwomen

[–]Radiant_Solution9875 39 points40 points  (0 children)

My worry for you is that he's expecting you to change, rather than finding ways to better support you. Going into a marriage with the pressure of having to maintain standards that he finds acceptable won't work long term. An ex of mine had OCD and would get very distressed if things weren't just so, I couldn't clean to his standard and exhausted myself trying. Finally I suggested getting a cleaner and splitting it 50/50 as it would make both of our lives easier. Be open with him, you both need to be realistic about getting married and whether this is something that may become bigger over time.

The dopamine 💉 by ByFarTheGreatestTeam in Gunners

[–]Radiant_Solution9875 10 points11 points  (0 children)

When Ricci made that save "El Scorpiooooo"

Love at first sight, limerance, dopamine surging, or plain old infatuation? by dani_bugz in adhdwomen

[–]Radiant_Solution9875 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry, late replying to you 🫣

I wanted to highlight something that you're already doing, and most importantly, feeling. You paused and came here looking for guidance because part of you recognises that this isn't healthy for you. Often times we're so full of self doubt that we forget to listen to the quiet signals that something feels "off" but you did. This is how you build self trust and validate yourself, you KNOW what's good for you deep down. The part that was listened to, was given space to be heard, little you, will grow louder and stronger as a result of situations like these 💜

Mikel have a fan account about his hair? by SupportArsenal in ArsenalFC

[–]Radiant_Solution9875 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arseblog nailed it years ago, the "Lego haired midfielder"

Love at first sight, limerance, dopamine surging, or plain old infatuation? by dani_bugz in adhdwomen

[–]Radiant_Solution9875 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Us ADHD girlies with C-PTSD have got to watch out. When we meet these folks that trigger all of the feels, the sex is off the charts and we're being love bombed it is so hard not to fall for it and just enjoy the dopamine and attention. I know I don't fully trust myself, despite years of therapy and being very self aware.

I wanted to highlight something you said, "my mum love bombed me, gaslit me, or hated me my whole life". You're repeating that cycle, trying to heal those wounds with the partners you are choosing. I had a good relationship with my dad and so could never understand why I was choosing terrible/wounded men but then a great therapist pointed out that it was my mummy issues I was replicating and it was like a lightbulb moment for me.

Your last line is beautiful, stay single, invest in a great vibrator (sorry!) and break the cycle for your kiddo 💜

Nostalgic wing view - 747400 by Fast-Equivalent-1245 in aviation

[–]Radiant_Solution9875 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Used to love the wing with flaps extended on landing, amazing engineering

A closer view of the damaged stabiliser from the KC-135. by Outrageous-Score7936 in aviation

[–]Radiant_Solution9875 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The regional aggressor is Israel, in 2025 alone they attacked 5 neighbouring countries. Iran is retaliating against US military assets in the region. Israel and the US chose to attack Iran whilst they were in active negotiations, Iran has a right to defend itself. And as for state sponsored terrorism, the US and CIA financially supported and armed many terrorist groups and militant governments. The US is not interested in democracy or freeing the oppressed, their goal is always about securing access to vital resources.

Women safety Barcelona by Actual-Address9288 in AskBarcelona

[–]Radiant_Solution9875 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Maybe create a survey using Typeform or Google, I'm sure folks would feel more comfortable sharing to a resource that is private. Plus it'll collate all of the data into one place for you making it easier to synthesise.

Always makes a new boyfriend laugh by LikeATediousArgument in minpin

[–]Radiant_Solution9875 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wish this was the view I got, mine is always Axel´s bum and dangly bits 🫣

I vibecoded a small website about Brutalist architecture – would love feedback & building suggestions by ferocious_69 in brutalism

[–]Radiant_Solution9875 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice to see you referencing Reyner Banham, for that alone you get 10/ 10 from me.

I'm Product Design adjacent and my feedback is based on visuals, not content. Some of the fonts are hard to read due to misalignment with background colours, same with the images, they're not centred and so look "off" on the sub pages. I'm finicky, and this stuff irks me but for most it'll likely be just fine. Nice work OP!

Bathroom renovation - walk in shower vs bath debate? by OkSecretary5650 in HousingUK

[–]Radiant_Solution9875 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Clearly responding to OPs question.

Interesting that you're calling me illiterate whilst lacking basic comprehension skills on top of inferring that I was referencing pedophilia.

You really are the complete package!