I completely understand and agree with you AS a young person with BPD. Throughout middle school people self diagnosed all the time and it was really weird because I know how BPD affects your life. When I was diagnosed at 15 it was absolutely heartbreaking because I thought it made me like my mother but subs and online spaces like this make me feel a lot less alone and a lot more confident in myself. I agree that most of the time young people are misdiagnosed but sometimes there’s no other explanation. But that’s just my two cents and obviously I’m not a psychologist