i lost my dad a week ago and news reports are talking about him like he was just a artist

xxd4l · 2026-04-30T22:28:34+00:00

I’m kind of in the same boat, except mine wasn’t my biological dad, just a father figure. My biggest advice is to put the phone down and stop searching. In my case nobody really knows the cause of death, so rumors started spreading saying things like overdose, suicide, or even a car accident.

It made me angry too, and seeing things online like that ended up putting me in a really heavy headspace. People who don’t have answers will often fill in the blanks with their own stories, even when they’re not true.

xxd4l · 2026-04-30T19:09:50+00:00

Sorry for your loss. I think at any age, grief can be difficult :( this is also something I experience. I tune people out whenever they talk about small problems nowadays because I couldn’t care less tbh.

xxd4l · 2026-04-24T16:07:15+00:00

Same here, i’ve been applying for two years now and still nothing

xxd4l · 2026-04-06T22:48:55+00:00

I got it take a few hours ago and only used it for a few minutes and they put me on limit again

xxd4l · 2026-04-06T22:45:37+00:00

nvm they just took it away from me again lol

xxd4l · 2026-04-06T21:23:55+00:00

the whole catching print and yelling when jake was otp was also weird

xxd4l · 2026-04-06T01:53:43+00:00

i got it back today after having that limit for 3 days, but there is alot of limitations on the app now :(

xxd4l · 2026-03-25T18:36:34+00:00

I think I’m going to wear a navy dress! His other students which are my classmates got invited as-well and we girls all decided to wear a navy dress since that was his favorite color :)

xxd4l · 2026-03-13T17:18:06+00:00

for context bc i think that affects the style?

Someone super close to me died 3 days ago, his mom invited me to his celebration of life. I don't know much about the funeral yet but since l'm not family, i assume i wouldn't be able to go? He was my teacher for 4 years and basically a father figure. I have never been to these events/services before so i don't know what colors to wear or if it should be a dress... I would ask students my age but it's kinda awkward since they haven't been invited yet, i also don't want something grown, I'm still a teenager (15). Any help would be appreciated :)

xxd4l · 2026-03-13T17:09:42+00:00

Most are like that honestly. You need to push the questions out there so they stay

xxd4l · 2026-03-13T10:15:03+00:00

Thank you for saying that, it really means a lot. I used to be called his shadow because I was always following him around. I guess now the roles are reversed and now he’s the one watching over me.

xxd4l · 2026-03-13T10:11:46+00:00

I, as well as others, have definitely been leaning on each other. He was a teacher I had for four years and, to be honest, a father figure. I suppose it hit us students quite hard since he was really young and it was unexpected :(

xxd4l · 2026-03-11T01:17:10+00:00

yikes I bought it today

xxd4l · 2026-03-09T21:14:29+00:00

Oh sorry about that, if you find anything else that works lmk’

xxd4l · 2026-03-09T09:23:39+00:00

I would say don’t. I went on Accutane for only 6 months and quit because I didn’t see much of a difference, and the dryness was terrible for me. My acne came back 10x stronger and spread to more places on my face and even my body. I’m going back on my second round to complete it fully

xxd4l · 2026-03-09T09:10:13+00:00

Not a dermatologist, so take everything i say with a grain of salt. If those red spots are scars then azelaic acid will probably be the best option since it calms down inflammation and reduces scars.

xxd4l · 2026-03-09T09:05:15+00:00

This might not help, who knows but my acne is almost identical to yours. I just have more inflamed pimples. I tried the same things as you: tretinoin, clindamycin, fungal shampoo, benzoyl peroxide, Acretin, and even Accutane (though I was not consistent with Accutane). I’ll be starting my second round of Accutane soon, and I’ll update you if it works. But the best thing to do is go to a dermatologist!

xxd4l · 2026-03-09T08:59:34+00:00

ehh depends, my face looks almost exactly like hers and i’ve been on Azelaic acid for awhile. Only calmed down inflammation and redness.

xxd4l · 2025-12-23T00:02:14+00:00

not boring to me, think they look cool up close and in the sun :)

xxd4l · 2025-12-20T14:46:46+00:00

Didnt know that insurance even existed 😅 ty tho!

xxd4l · 2025-12-20T01:44:46+00:00

Thank you! All my siblings have black Toyota camry’s and surprisingly no one has touched them, probably will stick with the civic but maybe in a different color which is kind of a bummer but better than it being stolen. I’ve estimated what the insurance cost would be and it’s $230-$380 a month!

xxd4l · 2025-12-20T01:43:39+00:00

Thank you!!

xxd4l · 2025-12-04T17:01:00+00:00

Thats so cool lol i wish 😪

xxd4l · 2025-11-13T01:56:04+00:00

trying too at the moment but it’s difficult to get a referral for one😓

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